I'm 19 and have been dating my bf for 2 years, almost 3, and we haven't had sex yet...and I think I want to now...but I'm still scared, and I'm not sure what exactly I'm scared of. I don't think I'm scared because I'm not ready, because I think I am...what should I do? and please don't leave rude posts, I'd appreciate that. I really want some help. Thanks.

Just go for it... But use a condom... There is no excuse not to.

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wow well you are at the age of consent and you to have been together a pretty long time. i think its long over due. and if you don't want to do it all right away you can always do oral.

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Alright

Okay

The first thing you're going to want to do is talk it all over.

Here are some key things to remember when speaking with your dude:

1. Sex is not a big deal. Yes, it can make a baby. Yes, society makes a huge deal out of it. But really, it's pleasure and flesh, when you get down to it. While he may or may not want it, just remember, this isn't life-or-death drama. Keep the talk light.

2. Going with the above point, this is crossing into my personal beliefs, but I feel sex really is alright as long as both parties are consenting, because its just a non-harmful act of flesh. Pregnancy responsibility is not for me to preach. Do not be afraid of it; the more taboo you make it out to be, the more thrilling it might be when you finally do get around to it, but its still making you out to be a superstitious being, and the last thing anyone should want to be is an idiot about something as simple as sex.

3. Physical signals are the key. Show him that you are serious. Maintain eye contact. Let him guide your fingers to gently caress his sphincter. Make sure he knows that you are tracking what he's saying. After a-...

Okay I'm done, I'll be honest, I just wanted a senseless lead up into the sphincter bomb!

Tell him you have a surprise in the bedroom, take him in, take off his pants, slap a condom on him, and fuck his brains out.

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This is a personal decision, I don't know what to tell you.

It sounds to me like you're not ready. If you think you're going to regret having sex, then don't.

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agreed ^^
if you have any doubts then obviously ur not ready. dont feel as though you have to do it cos u have been going out for ages or anyhting. just do it when ur both ready and willing

Sex is just like deciding for the first time to get drunk, to smoke or get high.

Really it's up to you, but it doesn't change anything afterwards, doesn't make you a whore, slapper or whatever.
It's just a way of bonding with your partner.

If you sleep around then, well it's just for the fun of it I s'pose really.

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Wow, three years and no sex? I would have left you LONG ago. As in 2 years, 10 months and 2 weeks ago to be precise.

You should totally bang him.

It's not that scary baby.

Just Relax

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You should only have sex if your totally confortable with it and only if you can deal with the risks that could happen.