I have this new girlfriend and she has kind of hinted to me a few times that she doesnt like sucking penis. First girl friend i have had that finds this disgusting, but i really like it and i haven't really told her yet. How can i convince her to blow me?

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do something to her first
or tell her you love her that
can trick her as well..

It's quite simple. Eat her out first. She'd be much willing to return the favor afterwards. It's all about give and take.

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Umm dont make her? Blowing is something girls dont often enjoy doing and if you try and force her you dont deserve her. Its just to bad. Thats her preference. Imagine you hated going down on her but she begged and pleaded and made you do something you dont want too. Its so not sexy and so not a turn on.

For you at least. You think guys enjoy eating out a girl? Fuck no, we'd rather just get down to business. However it's for your sake. The same applies to women. Nobody likes a woman who's a dead fish in bed. (at least the majority)

P.S 666th Post.

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Ok, For the record I enjoy giving head and from what he has told me and by his actions he enjoys eating me out. And blowjobs/eating out have nothing to do with being a dead fish in bed.

P.S Congratulations.

hm.... ok...here we go...
FIRST OF ALL. Some guys DO enjoy it, even though im not a guy, but believe me i know. AND, girls also enjoy it (some) ...for example, me. it turns me on like hell.

SECOND OF ALL. Not "for her at least", but FOR HER. Cz dats she...dats her personality and her "likes" and "dislikes". We all r free to say our opinions. rite?

And ...back to the topic...i agree with Sarah. Dont force her. Just tell'er u like it, explain why and if she still says no, u should stop. Time will show.

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You both seem to be misunderstanding me. The fact of the matter is, that we get nothing physically out of it. Now don't get me wrong I'm more than happy to eat a woman out, however you are the only one that is getting pleasure out of it. We enjoy making you feel good, but physically it's not doing anything for us. To a certain extent, being willing (or not) to perform fellatio does contribute to being a dead fish. Although not always true, it's only logical that a girl not willing to give head is almost more likely to not try other sexual things/positions.

Girl~Friend, you are being redundant. I had already said that was her opinion. No need to restate the obvious. I am in no way impeding on your or her freedom of speech.

Back on topic: I'll agree with the other posters in saying that you don't want to force her. Discuss it with her, and if she isn't willing to do it then that's the end of the story. Bring it up sometime later in your relationship. However I will say again that if you choose to perform cunnilingus, she will probably (again I say probably. This is not guaranteed) be more willing to return the favor.

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I'd dump her.

Unless she was really good at sex. Then I wouldn't care.

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I agree with tsuri. It can get gross. while a girl has wet, dripping vagina, that gets all over your face and shirt at times, a penis is only in your mouth. its not excreting things whilst you do it, and is quite simple. suck, up down. (one can get fancy don;t get me wrong) However, you have to massage the clit, move your tung like a motor, and drown in pussy juice.

I say eating a girl out is much more gross then sucking dick.

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