This question has an easy answer;
Every girl is different.
advice:
ask the girl you yourself want to get with and be what you need to be (within reason) to get her attention and keep it.
but you cant get one answer and generalize it to every girl, it wont work.
some girls dont even like guys, so that question wouldnt work anyway =P
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