Ok, so a couple months ago a really close friend of mine became a friend with benifits. (I know I sound whore-ish, bite me) And everything was cool. But a couple weeks ago his dad died, and I know he's taking it hard. But he wanted to hook up today, and I don't want him to hook up with me to cover other emotions because I know that will hurt in the future. I don't want him to think I've abandond him either. So what should I do?

He's your friend - help him through his tough time. But keep your pants on (him included ).

Try to get him to talk about things other than his father, and sex. And considering he was your friend beforehand, this should be pretty easy.

One word: Communication. Talk to ol dude bout it. Tell him how you feel. Certainly you two chillens can come to a good resolution.

Well, my time's up. Come back in two weeks so you can pick up your prescription.....
Wait,that what my shrink says....eh.

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Peace is a lie, there is only passion.
Through passion, I gain strength.
Through strength, I gain power.
Through power, I gain victory.
Through victory, my chains are broken.
The Force shall set me free.

Thanks! You guys are right - I just need to talk it out.
Give me some good drugs CJ!

All I got is Concerta and Lexapro. All they do is stop your food cravings and put you to sleep. Hahaha.

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Peace is a lie, there is only passion.
Through passion, I gain strength.
Through strength, I gain power.
Through power, I gain victory.
Through victory, my chains are broken.
The Force shall set me free.

Aww No fun!

You're allready fuckbuddies, what the hell do you think he was doing in the first place? You were his squeeze ball, he needed to blow off some steam by blowing his load, you were a handy receptacle. It's just now that you've realized this? How retarded are you?

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What got your panties in a bunch Thor?

Thor only speaks the truth

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Reece -- lol stricken...you truly are a prophet of the new millenium
Symmy-- "StrickeN=Amazing. Enough said."
http://www.arg.com/hangout/5173-why-...html#post80344

Ok so I've thought about Thor's reply and I take back my panty comment. He's totally right, the whole thing is a fucked up mess and I'm retarded for going along with it and not realizing what's really there.
Thanks everyone who replied.