you just need to relax

if you dont have alot of confidence then there are ways of fixing that...
do you do like sport or something?

i dunno but when you get involved in clubs and shit you meet new people and gradually it should be easier to make friends with other people...soooooo

in time maybe, you would have enough confidence to talk to him.

xxx mammo

Before the flood of flaming posts come in,
Bitch, you're not in love, you're just a horny little shut in.

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Since you can post in two different sections, I will too since i think my post is the real shit

So basically you aren't in love with him because you have probably never even talked to him, right? Ok, now that that is out of the way...

Remember this IS high school. No matter what you do, people generally have their cliques. Once in a clique, most of the time people don't move around. If you aren't one of the popular kids, generally you don't date one of the popular kids. If you are popular, you don't date band geeks, or the "goths" or emos, etc. Everything changes after high school, but at least when I was there, that is how it was. It was a whole social hierarchy.

So pretty much, if you aren't hot and popular, as dumb as it is, chances of you dating someone that is in that upper tier in high school are drastically lowered.

But good luck anyway

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First off.... I srsly lol'd at this. Hard. Like, tears in my eyes hard.

You are obviously incredibly insecure with yourself, and that is a total turn off to people. Be yourself, for fuck's sake. If he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you. Not worth your time.

Also, if you have never even approached the kid, you are most definitely not in love with him. In lust, probably. Get over it and grow up. =]

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Maybe it's just me, but I don't think every guy is into dating clones. Don't try too hard to be different, but don't try too hard to be the same either.

And for your confidence, you should try flirting with some guys who intimidate you less. Once you have your confidence up from that, you'll have an easier time with him. Also, remember not to think too highly of someone. When you do that, you're bound to make a mistake.

yeah just be yourself and go talk to him. if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out. but don't give up without trying first.

Dress up like a hot babe then let him fuck you

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