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07-07-2008, 08:19 PM
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 I have a lock but my parents get pissed when I lock my door. 
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07-07-2008, 08:21 PM
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07-07-2008, 08:22 PM
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| Then no doubt they'll bust the door down and I'll have to replace it... That actually happened once before.
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07-07-2008, 08:33 PM
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07-07-2008, 08:33 PM
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| Oh, well that's it then. Take it to your parents, with a mature conversation (no raising your voice, whining, crying, begging, etc..etc.) and without your sister there. Tell them the situation, and then ask for their suggestions of what you can do to end it. "Hi mom, dad, can I talk to you for a minute. Listen, I'm a little older now and I was expecting some privacy to come with that. But (little sister) has a problem with barging in my room constantly, and bothering me while I'm trying to concentrate on things like reading, writing, or my homework. And that become a problem because I'll start fighting, yelling, etc.. with her which usually makes you mad. So, is there any way that you guys can help me get some peace during the day? Maybe if you spent more time with (lil sis) or allowed me to lock my door, it would really help me out." etc..etc..etc....If they want to bullshit around with answers "Well she's your sister/she just wants to be like you/she loves you is all/you should be spending more time with her...just say, "Well I could/would if I had more time to myself, but right now, the only thing I can do with my freetime is yell and scream at her to get out." etc..etc..Edit to your circumstances.
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07-07-2008, 08:34 PM
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| Thats the problem I can't find away to calm myself down anymore. Too bad thats exactly what they tell me whenever I bring up the issue. She'll stop for a few days and then she'll start again. She goes around hitting, bitting, scratching me. Ordering me around... And believe it or not she's cussed me out! My seven year old sister! But my parents won't hear anything against her. They expect me to take her wherever she wants watch her instead of going places with my friends, and it gets on my nerves. My parents and I have discussed it quite a few times they'll tell her to give me space but she won't. They let her keep her toys in "my" room, so she gets to go in whenever she wants. Sorry i'm ranting, and seemingly whining but it makes me so mad.
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07-07-2008, 08:37 PM
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07-07-2008, 08:40 PM
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| If you ask her to stop then she'll specifically do that. Most of my friends thinks she's so cute and adorable but I think she's a devil!
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07-07-2008, 08:40 PM
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| i used to be like that with my lil bruv. although i can't call him lil bruv anymore 'cuz he's taller than i am. it caused a lot of anger and tension between us. it was hormones going on overdrive. its just a phase, though. try to make up for it, u know. take her to the park, play with her or take her to ice cream.
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07-07-2008, 08:42 PM
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| I don't like being her chaperone 24/7. My parents never spend time with her they pawn her off on me. Sometimes they'll leave her with me so they can go to clubs. They don't ask if I've got plans they just go.
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