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Old 07-07-2008, 04:47 PM
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Unhappy death

ok heres the deal. my puppy that was only a little over 7 weeks old died yesterday. it was an accident but i feel like its my fault because i could have prevented it. how do i convince myself its not my fault?
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Old 07-07-2008, 04:55 PM
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It wasn't your fault

End of story

I could have prevented the death of my family dog by not opening the garage door while he was there. He ran out because my family sucks at just about everything and got hit by a car. We had him for a few years.

It's not a big deal. Quit going boohoo about absolutely nothing just because a puppy you've had for 7 weeks kicked the bucket.
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Old 07-07-2008, 05:02 PM
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well u know itz natural for ppl close to something or some1 to feel responsible for their death but u couldn't of done anything to stop this from happening death is a part of life u just have to get over it
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Old 07-07-2008, 05:13 PM
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if its not ur fault then its not ur fuckin' fault.
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Old 07-07-2008, 06:05 PM
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What makes you think that you could have prevented it?

Try and think, that even if you had done something differently, what happened could have happened at another time, or another day. As hard as it is, you can't change what happened, but to accept that it wasn't your fault, you also need to accept what has happened. Whenever someone's born, they die too. It isn't easy, but it's a fact of life, but a fact that you don't have control over. If you had control over it, then it might have been your fault. But since you don't, it isn't. You didn't physically kill your dog. Like you say it was an accident, and an accident that wasn't your fault.
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