Need help with social confidense - Page 2

Mattz0r · #11 (**permalink**) 06-25-2008, 05:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Tony the Tiger

Well thats good, just a warning, they're will be drinking, smoking, and illegal stuff. So do your best not to get yourself in to TOO much trouble.

I doubt i'd be turning up if there wasnt ^_^'

Tony the Tiger · #12 (**permalink**) 06-25-2008, 05:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Mattz0r

I doubt i'd be turning up if there wasnt ^_^'

Good Man! Just makin' sure.

KidsHardcore · #13 (**permalink**) 06-25-2008, 07:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Mattz0r

Well, Basically im 17 and left school last year (Took a gap year) and socially my life has fallen to peices ever since.

To tell you the truth i dont really understand it, And this is my last resort.

When talking with people over msn/phone, Im perfectly confident and would be persieved to be a funny, Nice guy. But talking in person i feel edgey and withdrawn, I know people would like me if i could only show them the real me, The words are in my head but for some stupid reason i just cant let them out.

Its always been this way regarding women, Once again if theres a distance i get along with girls brilliantly. But in person im a bit of a wreck, And i cant for the life of me figure out why.

At first i assumed it was because i never really liked the way i looked, So i spent time running & working out. I have no issues with my appearance any longer, So this cant be the cause of my crippling shy-ness.

If anyone here has/is going through something similar to this, I'd really apreciate some advise as to why i act this way and how i can get my confidense back, And become myself once more.

i am kinda in your shoes, with the way you are in person.
i am exactly the same....recently...i just would meet girls online in a sense of knowing them little deeper then just a screen name....maybe seeing her with a group of friends and etc. once i found my current girlfriend...thats basically what had happened, i happen to see her around...say hi but was really shy to talk to her.....but i got a hold of her screen name and started slowing introducing myself and what i was about....we've been dating for a year now....

there is many diff ways of getting a girl in general.....MANY

other then that...don't show that your gonna HOLD BACK COMPLETELY just ease your way through things, it might take some time but you'll get it!

Odin · #14 (**permalink**) 06-25-2008, 06:13 PM

Odin's Guide to Confidence

Njord · #15 (**permalink**) 06-25-2008, 07:53 PM

Guys holy fuck, what have we (Norse) been talking about ever since we got here? You kids are hopeless. Read Odin's guide, and then check my blog. It starts on self-confidence at least.

Odin · #16 (**permalink**) 06-25-2008, 09:15 PM

On the real.

Tony the Tiger · #17 (**permalink**) 06-25-2008, 10:00 PM

Yeah, unfortunately, I read the guide, and It's worth reading. It actually has some good stuff in there, and it's made by what seems to be some pretty smart people.

thegodcallednick · #18 (**permalink**) 06-25-2008, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Mattz0r

Well, Basically im 17 and left school last year (Took a gap year) and socially my life has fallen to peices ever since.

To tell you the truth i dont really understand it, And this is my last resort.

When talking with people over msn/phone, Im perfectly confident and would be persieved to be a funny, Nice guy. But talking in person i feel edgey and withdrawn, I know people would like me if i could only show them the real me, The words are in my head but for some stupid reason i just cant let them out.

Its always been this way regarding women, Once again if theres a distance i get along with girls brilliantly. But in person im a bit of a wreck, And i cant for the life of me figure out why.

At first i assumed it was because i never really liked the way i looked, So i spent time running & working out. I have no issues with my appearance any longer, So this cant be the cause of my crippling shy-ness.

If anyone here has/is going through something similar to this, I'd really apreciate some advise as to why i act this way and how i can get my confidense back, And become myself once more.

i thought that european colleges went til your 19, not 18 like our high schools (i could be way off though).

good luck with your universities studies. rember that even if your spleen ruptures and you collaspe in pain right in your dorm room as soon as getting there you'll still make 15+ friends that same day.

and listen to the gods, those entities give better advise than the bible

Tony the Tiger · #19 (**permalink**) 06-25-2008, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by thegodcallednick

i thought that european colleges went til your 19, not 18 like our high schools (i could be way off though).

good luck with your universities studies. rember that even if your spleen ruptures and you collaspe in pain right in your dorm room as soon as getting there you'll still make 15+ friends that same day.

and listen to the gods, those entities give better advise than the bible

He took a gap year...Which means he graduates 1 year earlier, because he took a year off right?

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