I was wondering how you guys would respond to these tricky questions.

Such as when a girl asks "Are you a player?"

If you say yes, she thinks you're just after some ass. If you say no, you sound like insecure. I've had girls ask me this after I approached a group of them with confidence.

Also, how would you respond to the question "How many girls have you had sex with?" I had a girl ask me this as we were making out and I didn't know whether to lie or not haha.

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Well, Im only going to comment on one point.
if they ask how many times youve had sex, dont lie.
Thats just stupid.

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Well, I wouldn't really have to lie since I haven't had that many sexual partners (Can count them on two hands lol). But someone who gets a lot of action might want to instead of saying "60+ girls".

Kind of makes you sound like a man slut.

Was wondering how they'd respond. Every now and then girls throw questions out there that I have no idea how to answer...

In regards to the "Are you a player?" question, when she says that, backhand her with which ever hand is your pimphand across the face. Then proceed to say, in an obviously sarcastic tone, "No bitch, I don't play no games"

She'll know you're serious then

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"The world will look up and shout 'Save us!' And I'll whisper, 'No.'" - Rorschach, Watchmen

Q. Are you a player?
A. No, I just like to establish a meaningful bond with the female gender. Although if the oppertunity arises I would be more then happy to screw you.

Q. How many girls have you had sex with?
A. It doesn't matter how many women I've slept with, it matters that each one of them meant something to me at the time.


Could always confess up

"Yep, I'm a manslag."

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Why bother wondering, when you can know?

Q: Are you a player?
A: Player's lie to get girls. I never lie.

Q: How many girls have you had sex with?
A: That's a rude fucking question and I never answer it.
Q: But I've had se...
A: I don't care, not my business.

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they could always be kidding.

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The answer lies in your personality. One response won't work for everyone. If I was asked "Are you a player?" Then I'd first ask why they were asking and then gauge their response before answering. But the same tactic might not work for everyone. Especially considering that I'm celibate and uninterested in courting.

The answer lies in you. Pretty much anything I say will make every girl in a ten mile radius like me even more.

As to the second question? I could answer honestly and say "zero". I don't quite no how many you have, but you should just ask her why she's interested in knowing.

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The PU community calls these types of questions Shit Tests or Congruency Tests. Basically, a girl tries to break your state (attitude, demeanor, sexual intrigue, etc.) by asking you to answer bullshit questions or do stupid actions like buy her a drink, hold her purse, or answer questions like those above. When you fail a test, sometimes her intial attraction to you will end, because you are no longer a challenge. She's broken you down and will end up keeping you there.

You simply reframe the state of the question to suit your needs, like Odin did so flawlessly with the first.
Basically, this girl is accusing the sexy Odin of messing around the emotions of multiple women, because it's obvious he gets many. Odin simply reframes the question into his state - He gets all the women he wants, but doesn't have to play them to do it. He's answering the question, while not seeming defensive with an outright "No."
To this question, you would do best ignoring it completely. This is when you set your rules and boundaries. This girl is prying into personal information that is way out of her line of business, and you pretty much say that, "It's extremely rude to pry into my business like that. Promise me you won't ask it again or I think it may be best if we end this here."
If she bitches, leave, because she's a bitch. However, if she says "Sorry, etc." then put a smile on, laugh it off and say "It's fine, etc." and move on with the conversation.

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Sometimes I forget people may not understand the subtle nuances of what I do.

This is why I have you, Njord.

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Why You Never Buy a Girl a Drink at a Bar
Odin Debunks the Most Annoying Quote Ever
How To Handle A Manipulative Bitch
Odin's Guide to Body Language
Odin's Guide to Why You're NOT in Love