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Old 05-31-2008, 03:27 AM
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I think my friend is codependent and I've told her before but she doesn't listen, she's been in short relationships that last like a week or so and she gets dumped, then she gets all teary and saying weird things like "I'm not good enough for anybody!" it gets really annoying... I have to put up with her all most everyday and I'm about to end the friendship if she can't get a hold of herself and learn she doesn't need a dick to make her happy. What do you guys think...?
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She either has some hormonal problem, or is just being desperate.

Sit her down and give it to her straight that she is pissing you off with her boy problems, she doesnt need a guy to be happy and maybe tell her to grow up a little. I have a friend who is exactlly the same, and I really cant be bothered with her anymore. But its always that her mum hates her boyfriend and she makes up all these stories that arent true to get sympathy. Its pathetic and almost everybody hates her but me. I wouldnt call her a friend anymore. Just an annoying person I know. I dont hate people.
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Thanks!
I don't hate people either, I'm generally a nice person but she is getting on my last nerves and I guess she should grow up... but I also think she is bipolar and won't take this very well.... like I joke around when she punches me and call her "manly" and say im just joking afterwards and won't even speak to me for all most a week... super sensitive.
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My mother's an unmedicated bipolar, trust me I know how it is haha.

Yeah it can get really annoying, like there is being a good friend, but there is only so much sympathy a girl can give right?
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Yup!
My sister is also biolar but shes on meds but tends not to take them and shes a REALLY bad case so it gets tough sometimes and my friend shows the same symptoms of bipolar disorder.
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My mum refuses meds cause they make her feel empty and soulless. Which is fair enough except it can be really hard at the low points. But you have to work through stuff like that.

Just tell your friend to get some guts, listen to a bit of feminist music and realise she doesnt need a boyfriend.
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Thank you for your help =]
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