My previous post seemed not right.
So, I am gonna edit it and post it so that everybody can understand it.

Guys who tries to be gentleman to suck up to women and seek approval is not good.

YOu must be a gentleman to be nice and be nice not only with women but with everybody.

Dont let people walk all over you and "bother" women with opening doors or pulling chairs out the whole time.

So, be assertive and remain in control.
Dont be a doormat.

And the same for girls.

DOnt let your boys walk over you.
Keep the stakes high.
And they will always love you.

Are you gay?

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NO, I was making a statement about how guys should act rather than seeking approval.

What about that makes me gay?

'coolboi1' username.

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That and the whole loving dick thing he's got going.

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Whats wrong with being a gentleman, its charming and sweet and lets a girl know that the guy actually cares. Do you hear many girls going 'Ohh I love a guy who is assertive?' nooo you hear, 'Ohhh I love a guy who is a gentleman'.

Its about being sweet. I dont know what delusional planet you come from, but girls want a confident guy who isnt afraid to be sweet infront of his mates and other guys. None of this being rude bullshit.

Exactly.
In the long run a lot of women don't look for muscular men that would rather look masculine instead of showing their girlfriend that they care. If a guy did that to me I would think they love themselves more than me.

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Yeah a lot of this is extremely way off. Some of you may not be getting the gist of my advice. When I say, Be A Man - Be Assertive - Be Confident, I don't mean walk all over a woman. However, you still show that you run the show and control the situations, but in a relationship you have to have that romantic side too. It can't all just be lust and power, because a woman needs that emotional connection. Without that, she'll just go find it elsewhere (cheat). The same goes the other way - without the lust and power, a woman will go out and not necessarily search for it, but if someone happens to offer it to her, don't think she won't take it. You have to find balance. Meh, new chapter..maybe tomorrow. You guys are confusing my shit too much.

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Exactlly! I think you'll find that a guy who is just generally sweet gets more girls then the guy who sits down in his dates seat and lets her go off and find another one.

I mean what kind of a stupid post is that!

No dont stop! Dont listen to this jerk he doesnt know what the hell he is talking about.

No, it's probably my fault since I've been posting powerhouse threads where I promote certain traits that may cause guys to think they can act like this. I'll sort it all out tomorrow.

But let's be honest, what traits do you really look for in a guy? And I don't want confidence, sweet, funny, romantic. Give me a trait with an example:

Protective - I want him to be able to stand up for himself and me in any situation.
Assertive - I want him to be able to make things happen - from a restaurant where the waiters are taking too long - to asking me out, where he doesn't bullshit around with the formalities.

As a matter of fact, I'll make a thread.

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