Well after me and one of my really close guy friends told one another we like each other we have trouble carrying on a convo now.... but I try my best not to blush every time he's near.... *sigh* we talk alot online and through txt rather than in person... so try and give 'er some space for a while, but try and carry a convo .... if you can

Yeah, thanks. I'll try, if I can even get near her, that is...

But now she hasn't even sent me an email or an IM in alomost 3 days do you know what could be wrong?

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Well are you close friends?

We were, then she stopped talking to me for a long time, then she stole my yahoo messenger id from her aunt (lol) and we started talking again. I guess she stopped talking to me because she liked me or something weird like that... Since she said we should just be friends, I haven't seen her, but she hasn't messaged me either... should I write her or something?

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Yeah and if you don't hear from her in like a week and then send her another message then I dunno 'cause like they guy I was dating he stopped talking to me for a month and then I told my friend how I felt about him and then two days later my b/f starts talking to me again! Me and my friend aren't going out but I'll probably leave my b/f for him though... do you think that is wrong?

Are you serious. This is kind of strange... I had the EXACT SAME QUESTION about a week ago.

My friend that stopped talking to me (Ashlee) had started talking to me again (IM only though) And my "gf" (Maria) and I got in a fight over some stupid reason, she told me not to talk to her or her friends.

So I had my cry (long and hard) and then Ashlee asked me if I still liked her. I told Ashlee what happened. A couple days later (keep in mind I have known her for YEARS) I told her I liked her and she said she had liked me for years too, but was to shy to say anything (hey, sounds like me lol)

Then (this is where it gets REALLY complicated for me) Maria told me she was sorry and that she wanted me to be mine again, but I told her that I was with Ashlee, she got sooo sad and I was like, "I'm so sorry, but I can't" and then this whole thing with Ashlee happened, now I'm just her friend and I have no one.

BUT! When she told me she liked me (keep in mind I have liked her for years) I promised myself that I would do whatever I could to make this work. But my magic touch won't leave me, and now I'm afraid that it'll end in disaster.

I'm not sure how this sob story will help you with your bf, but I would say, talk to him about it. Tell him why you are leaving him (if you are), and try to break up peacefully. If you don leave him, then explain to your friend why you can't be with him and so-on and so-forth.

As for it being wrong, I cannot say yes or no. I do not know thees people, I don't know the situation well enough.



EDIT: Wow! This is definently one of my longest posts lol!

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I dunno . I hope I was some help for you..... Alas I think it is time for me to take my leave unless further question will indulge me like wise they will. lol

OK, later then. Yes, you were very helpful, thanks

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My pleasure :P

Hey, I found out that she has been in trouble and not able to log on to the computer, so that explains why she hasn't messaged me... She has a rough family background and I know she feels alone, she has some good friends, but only a few. I want to help her but I don't know how... Should I just let her know that I'm here for her, or is there anything I can do???

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