I hate my best friend (i really need advice) Hi everyone, i could write like a million pages on my situation, so im gonna try to make this as brief and easy-to-read as possible, please im begging you give me some advice.
I hate my best friend for alot of reasons:
-i feel he tries to make me jealous with anything
-he goes against alot of the things i believe in
-he says stuff about other people behind there back and judges them
-he tries really hard to be friends with some kids who get alot of girls just so he can get with girls
-he copies me in terms of what i say and what i do
-hel make a complete exaggeration of something that happened just so he has a story to tell to people
-You might ask why is he my best friend, i think the fact that weve been friends for so long is whats holding this friendship together. well he wasn't always like this, there used to be no tension a couple of years ago, its almost like were competing with each other in anything (sports,girls,who has more friends, ect) ive tried repeatedly to not lead into any of these "competitions" and just stay neutral and at bay, but he keeps forcing this competition on me, its like he will never quit, and it bothers me so much, he can be his normal cool self at times but then he just acts completely different.
Conclusion: i dont wanna just stop being friends with him, cause he can be very enjoyable to hang out with, what im thinking of doing is to try and find a girlfriend, and just hang out with him "part time", but im afraid this might add more fuel to the fire. |