I decided to share one of my recent personal experiences with a girl, because this situation happens often. Even though we Norse gods have constantly given advice towards this subject, guys/girls still come here daily asking the same questions. I'd rather you guys gleam from this before making the same mistake.

*Names changed because I fucking said so*
*Also, the girl is German so her English isn't quite up to par.

Problem

Mary has a problem. She extremely beautiful and is extremely sociable. Apparently, a number of her guy friends have a crush on her (3) and after a night of heavy drinking, tried to express their feelings by pushing themselves on her. The first (Guy X) got his wish, only because he surprised her. The others were denied (Guy Y and Z).

So..4 hours later I receive this Email.

So now, Guy Y is mad at Mary because he "loves" her and her X-Men powers were supposed to tell her that. So now, Guy Y is angry at Mary because somehow she only belongs to him, and he feels "betrayed" that she kisses Guy X but not him.

Solution

Mary should talk to her friends, but shouldn't make a big deal emotionally. The guys were ridiculous to think they could claim her without her knowing their feelings.

Guy X, Y, and Z are pussies. Each have known this girl for years, and have had ample time and opportunity to express their feelings towards her. The first loses my respect for being drunk, and trying to force himself on her. Stupid way to go, and usually ends in rape charge.
Guy Y has a killer case of Bitchassness, because he's extremely jealous of nothing. He showed no initiative to show his feelings for her, and became salty when he couldn't have her.
Guy Z was just super drunk and thought he could get what was going around. Unfortunately, he was a little too full of himself and got knocked down a peg or two with a denial stomp on the nuts.

Conclusion

The moral of this story is...Don't be these guys. Let a woman know up front that you appreciate her beauty, personality, or whatever you may be attracted to. Grow some balls and be a man instead of cowering behind your fear of rejection. Don't give up if you are turned down, there are plenty more fish in the sea. You're young, and what you may think is love isn't love at all but obsession and lust. Take your time with your feelings and your thoughts about women, and you'll rarely go wrong.

damn good call man

wow ur really are an internet jerry lol well evaluated njord

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Ooo Mary must b hot, tell her to get at me, I will be traveling to Europe soon, can stop by Germany and show those guys how to handle that hahahahha.

Well done. You have some good judgement.

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lmao o shoot that was intresting.....real life drama lol

damn. that's just... RIGHT. well said, Njord, you got my respect.

which is why its not a good idea to get drunk in mixed company. I agree, and have adopted a total honesty policy when it comes to girls. thanks njord, yah do wonders.

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