I fear rejection...I dont know why but i do, Considering the only 2 girls ive ever asked out both said yah i cant figure it out, but i really like this girl and i wanna ask her out but i cant seem to find the courage to do it...Maybe its cuase shes a freind of mine? i dunno but can someone help me out?

And its not like im really ugly...A couple people think im cute and yada yada but i dunno...im 14 by the way.

Well....if she's a good friend, I'm sure it won't be too hard to ask. And if she rejects, hopefully she won't come down on ya too hard. Oh and uh, make sure you got somethin good planned as a date. Asking is only the first hurdle. Oh, and making sure you ask at the right time is the key as well. Try easing into asking. Start up a convo first instead of popping up and asking before you even say "hi".

In my opinion, 14 year olds shouldn't be so concerned with dating. A proper education is what they should be concerned with. But who the hell am I, eh?

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idk im the same way... quite afew people have told me i'm cute but idk...
just take the plunge everytime i do it usually works out great man

Best advice?

Grow balls and take it like a man.

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I second that.

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1st 2 posts thanks. 2nd two, you guys are ass holes.

just stay on the internet all the time you never have to look anyone in the eyes ^_^

hahahahaha

Look in the mirror, grab the things you call balls.

Now I want you to muster the courage and self-esteem locked deep in your conscience....

Then go to her house, say hey lets go see a movie

she's trapped you didn't ask tada date #1

During date #1 if you find it appropriate give her a kiss or something, ONLY YOU CAN MAKE IT THE RIGHT time

long story short, stop being a baby because you're shy. As long as you stay here on the forums complaining about being shy the only thing that will happen is you'll be more shy. The only way to get rid of the aggravating shyness, is to just do things off of spontaneous spurts

Then you'll get the feeling for it

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Actually bro they guys you say that are assholes state the truth. Gotta gain the courage, regardless of fear of rejection. You got it good, since you basically like someone you already know. If it comes to rejection and if she really is your friend, she'll still be your friend bro. Gotta come out of that shell of yours man. You will eventually, give it time.

Picture them in their underwear and if you do get rejected, laugh

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