alright. so just to start this off, i met this girl awhile ago, she's been thru all i have and back again.we tell each other everything, and i could listen to her talk for hours. i was on the phone with her about a week ago and she asked me if i loved her, and i said i did, and since then my feelings have grown more and more for her, and now i find myself unable to stop thinking of her. im on the phone with her 24/7 and i feel like i really do love her, and she says she loves me back.so is it love or not?

Would you be willing to spend the rest of your life with her, unconditionally?

Like if she asked you to marry her RIGHT NOW, would you do it, not thinking of possible consequences?

Those are the questions that should be asked to test to see if you're in love.

i would be the one asking for marriage, but im a little young for that.

but if i had to spend the rest of my life with one person, it would be her.

Love is not the ability to just think about her uncontrollably, if I recall correctly, we all did that in middle school.

Time will tell, hardships are usually the indicators.

I don't know if it's love, but you definitely have something special.

well, ive kept her from suicide, and shes helped me quit smoking so...

Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it...It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more.

id do anything for her, and i know shed do anything for me

Sure it isn't just blind teenage ambition getting the best of you?

I say give it a few years, if you really do love her it will last. If not you'll eventually go your different ways.

Only person who really knows whether you love her or not is you. So hold on to what you have for now. I'm not a big believer in love at young ages, but it CAN vary on the situation.

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Reece -- lol stricken...you truly are a prophet of the new millenium
Symmy-- "StrickeN=Amazing. Enough said."
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"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."