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Nice Guy · #11 (**permalink**) 03-20-2008, 11:31 PM

Also, learn a lesson from The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet.

When Romeo and Juliet decide to get married, because they think they are so in love, Friar Laurence warns them that if they love too passionately, it will end poorly.

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These sudden joys have sudden endings. They burn up in victory like fire and gunpowder. When they meet, as in a kiss, they explode. Too much honey is delicious, but it makes you sick to your stomach. Therefore, love each other in moderation. That is the key to long-lasting love. Too fast is as bad as too slow.

So take it slow, and give it some time.

Tweety · #12 (**permalink**) 03-21-2008, 12:03 AM

Sounds like u have something really good......really good....when you are in love you know it....no questions asked....its just how it is.....u love her or u dont.....or ur on ur way to loveing her

Njord · #13 (**permalink**) 03-21-2008, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by christensenkendall

alright. so just to start this off, i met this girl awhile ago, she's been thru all i have and back again.we tell each other everything, and i could listen to her talk for hours. i was on the phone with her about a week ago and she asked me if i loved her, and i said i did, and since then my feelings have grown more and more for her, and now i find myself unable to stop thinking of her. im on the phone with her 24/7 and i feel like i really do love her, and she says she loves me back.so is it love or not?

No, this is teenage infatuation. Listen to no one here talking about "real love" or "this is love". Everyone over the age of 30 can tell you this same story, so it's nothing new. You both are young with raging hormones and probably very little to do with your time, hence the 24/7 phone conversations. But you probably shouldn't put yourself in the love-boat yet, take your time with a situation like this.

C21589 · #14 (**permalink**) 03-21-2008, 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by christensenkendall

alright. so just to start this off, i met this girl awhile ago, she's been thru all i have and back again.we tell each other everything, and i could listen to her talk for hours. i was on the phone with her about a week ago and she asked me if i loved her, and i said i did, and since then my feelings have grown more and more for her, and now i find myself unable to stop thinking of her. im on the phone with her 24/7 and i feel like i really do love her, and she says she loves me back.so is it love or not?

The definition of love is not something that any teenager is capable of understanding.

No, it is not love. Love does not exist between teenagers. Strong fondnesses exist, quite obviously, but no. It is not love. I think you two should stop seeing each other and get lives of your own doing something you enjoy.

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