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| Jesus Christ! Are you people all stupid? Get her number from someone else and introduce yourself by text? What are you fucking retarded? She doesn't know you exist. That's a fucking problem. Asking her out (to be your girlfriend) will be weird. However, going up to her and starting a conversation with her and then asking her to get some coffee is not out of line. What's the worst that could happen? She says 'no'. Then where are you? You're going home with your dick in your hand, just like you're doing right now. You're no better off than where you started. I ask out a ridiculous amount of girls, most of them say no. But those 5 and 6 a week who say yes, well, I'm golden. Babe Ruth had at one time held the record for the most home runs and also the most strike outs. He got up there and he swung for the fences every time, no matter what.
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| hmm...Good analogy. Honestly, follow his advice, it's pretty much golden. You just talk to girls, the opportunity to actually *ask them out* (i laugh at the idea..) will present itself. 17 and haven't talked to a girl? You're doomed to a life of hard masturbation and eventually death as a virgin. Sorry. |
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| good god. i suggest you go get some sort of self confidence. girls hate guys that dont have any type of confidence at all. talk to her. dont just go up to her and ask her out, she will most likely think you are a stalker. g'day.
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| Problems with what you've said: 1: I hate coffee. (though I get the idea) 2: I can't drive, so how would we get there?(she can't drive either) 3: I can't get a job, so how would I pay for the coffee(or related item) if I happened to be able to get there? My first idea was to just introduce myself, but I still think she would find it a bit odd... And I can't post a image of myself, because I don't have a computer with internet access right now. |
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| Don't be blunt. first, you need to introduce yourself to her IN PERSON. If you get her number from a friend, it may seem creepy. Start talking to her. Try to subtly let her know you want her without letting her know for sure. Get her number, and start texting her and keep communicating with her as much as possible. Ask her out within a week or so. If she turns you down, try to keep friends and move on to the next girl. This way, you stay in contact and if you still like her later, you can try to get her to make that leap from friend to girlfriend. I hope that that helps you. Good Luck |
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