so theres this girl i like..... a lot, but im almost sure she doesnt like me back, she is more of a....... popular girl, and im more of the kid who sits in the back and doesnt really talk unless spoken to

we talked a lot last year, and i could almost consider us..... "friends"

im really confused on what to do,

suggestions?

Keep talking to her, and you know she likes you if she wants to talk to you usually.

Could just balls up and ask if she wants to go out on a date sometime.

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"As long as there's free will, idiots will never learn"

Confidence. If you're uncomfortable saying you're friends and have to put the word in quotes, you're definitely not confident around her.

It's not what you want to hear, but from your description, she could be straight out of your league.

As for what to do, I'm useless. I just hadn't posted in a while. But don't despair, I'm sure Njord will be here to save the day for you soon enough.

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You know that it's a fool who plays it cool by making his world a little colder.

Keep getting to know her. Then see where that takes you.

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That's not just shit, that's disgusting. That's pus covered vomit in an overflowing Porto-Potty filled with Diarrhea.-FagBallz

Honey you need to read the guide on confidence we have here first.

Second, Forget cliques. They mean nothing. Seriously. Just keep talking to her, then invite her casually out to get a drink/coffee/something to eat. Then just hang out. Get to know her socially and then when your sure you comfortable you can ask her out as more than friends.

Booyah.

Also, you need to learn and accept a few things (which I need to put on my blog)..
The biggest being:
Girls are not bitches, sluts, popular, mean, snobby, snooty, or assholes. Those personalities to not apply. If she's pretty, of course there are going to be a lot of guys surrounding her. They are her "friends" because they were too pathetic for her. She develops these personalities because of those guys hitting on her constantly. She puts on huge shades so she can hide behind them, and she doesn't engage in every conversation because she knows the boring and monotonous path to which it leads. Be different. Stand out from those others faggots trying to get in her pants. Learn some witty jokes, or card tricks, something. Introduce, show you're different (fun/awesome), and then have a conversation.

If she doesn't have a boyfriend, don't back down. Girls will be surrounding her because they are social leeches, and need her social protection (the boys that follow her around) for themselves. Deep down, most women are insecure and pathetic, but many are fun and emotionally deep once you get to know them.
I've met girls these past 2 weeks that I would have considered bitches 2 years ago, just because of how they talk and act. But now that I've learned how to manage myself around them (literally not care and be me) they'll open up soon enough and let you have what you want [a relationship, etc]

Also, have the mentality that every girl you talk to is into you, whether she knows it or not. You're just out to prove it to her.

First, get out and talk. You're not an anti-social guy. Those people only exist because they bring it upon themselves. Go out to a public place with lots of random teens and start introducing yourself and carrying on conversations. Learn how to talk and manage yourself in front of others.

With "popular" girls, you need to show that you can handle that attention. A big way is standing out. You're a shadow in the corner so she can't notice you. She doesn't know if you can protect her, or relate to how people are always looking at her, etc..etc. Show that. I recently started standing out in big ways, and saw how the eyes of women would literally hunt me down as I walked by, whether they were reading my name-tag or checking out my awesome ties. It works, trust me.

Talk talk talk, but you do have a time-limit. There are certain conversation threads you need to move to in order to not hit that "friend" zone when you are carrying on a conversation. Show you're awesome, funny, witty, and also sexual/not gay. When you can throw in a conversation, "Oh I'm gay" and she doesn't believe you, you're doing a good job (winning her over).

Everyone else can hit you with the mundane stuff (confidence, just do it, etc.)

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thx guys

ill keep on getting to know her better and all that stuff

um, i dont think we could go for a drink....... were just a little too young

You can hang out down town or the park though.

They was just ideas not mandatory.

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"As long as there's free will, idiots will never learn"

remember when i say were "friends" i dont mean hang out on weekends, go to movies, etc. friends

Well, start doin' stuff together, maybe take her to do some thing (as a friend).

If it shows she likes you, you could ask her out like: Hey, this movie looks great! Wanna go see it at blah... blah. I'll pick you up/meet you there at 7 or w/e...

If not, try hanging out with her more, she might tell you she's with another guy and you don't want to lose here that quickly.

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