Well to start it off i didn't know where to put this because it kind of has attributes of General Advice, Dating & Relationships, and Sex Advice and Tips so if this is the wrong spot sorry.


Me and my girlfriend have be going out for about three months now and its great but about a month and a half ago she told me she was raped by two guys a few months before she started dating me. Me being who I am i want to find the two kids and kill them nice and slow. But what I am asking is I am put off sexually by this a little (I understand it's not her fault but me being a virgin might have something to do with this.) and I can tell she is still hurt by it deep down. I need advice on how to get it out of my mind and when the time comes not have it running through my head. And how to comfort her and somehow make her feel better.

Well I've never been raped or been in a situation like that.. so I guess for now just make sure she knows you're there for her whenever she needs you, and don't push her into doing anything. Although I suppose that's only common sense.

Honestly? I'd feel the same way. You can't help how you feel about something like that. You could stay with her and not have sex; chances are you'll break up anyway.

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Aw see, I would've helped you out here if you hadn't been a titty-suck about the dup. thread. Tsk tsk.



*No I just have to cut grass. THE PLAINS ARE OVERGROWN!

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Might sound lame but I think she really wants to take it to the next level and I'm the one maybe a little hesitant.

That's what I'm afraid of. I want to get over it somehow.

Read how I changed it and then come back I'd like some insight

I know how you feel. That's something I've contemplated and couldn't come up with a solution. I'd search the city and have her identify the scum bags and torture them for days. 'Course, I'm a resourceful bastard with a sadistic streak.

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They live a town over and my friend did a pretty good job but its not satisfying for me. And to add to the bad she has scars on her hips from it so like that is a good reminder for me

You know who they were?

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Only first names nothing else and they are in college now. It wouldn't solve anything anyways only my anger not the problems

Suit yourself. If it were up to me, I'd create an abbatoir, kidnap them and torture them in the most inhumane ways.

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