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Old 08-20-2008, 11:04 PM
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So i wrote a thread a long time ago about a guy i had a crush on for years. Well we've been dating each other for 3 months and just now got to making it official (i didn't want to pressure him into being in a relationship). I've been really good with being not clingy or needy of him. We see each other once or twice a week and only a couple calls sometimes to just chat.

The thing i'm worried about it we're moving into the dorms tomorrow. He only goes to school 15 minutes away and he says he'll come over to my place a lot. I was just wondering if i can get any tips to make this work
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Old 08-20-2008, 11:18 PM
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Make what work?
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Old 08-20-2008, 11:38 PM
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lol make going out work like ideals on how to see each other
also some advice about being able to handle college while dating
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Old 08-20-2008, 11:40 PM
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You should give your body up to him just like the dirty slut you are. Trust me, it will work best that way.
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Old 08-20-2008, 11:43 PM
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lmao why didn't i think of that sooner! =)
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Old 08-20-2008, 11:47 PM
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lol make going out work like ideals on how to see each other
also some advice about being able to handle college while dating
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Well the first is between you and him. No one here can suggest what you "should" do because you both have preferences for the type of relationships you like, that NONE of us know anything about.

As for handling college while dating, just set priorities (Work <-> Pleasure)
Don't throw all your love onto this guy because it IS college. Have fun.
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Old 08-21-2008, 12:07 AM
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Yeah, he basically said what I said. Be your inner skank.
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Old 08-21-2008, 01:19 AM
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Old 08-21-2008, 06:29 PM
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OK.

It's not a LDR...which is good. 15 minutes is within acceptable boundaries.

However I'm just wary of college relationships because you should be out having fun and fucking as many people as possible.
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Old 08-22-2008, 04:19 AM
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Chances are it won't work. Odds are against you there. Not to be pessimistic, but it's true. But you sound like you have your head on track to some degree, so you won't be too off.

I'm one of the more chaste members of the forum, so I'd disagree with Odin on the last statement, but that's a personal view, so I can't really advise you on anything other than my own belief system.

College relationships can be pretty difficult though. Time management and such. From what I understand, (mind you, I'm still in High School) you'll be pretty busy in college. Though, being that you're not the clingy type, you can probably deal with that.

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