Alright. So I started hanging out with Sara in around grade 10. when we were in grade 12 she got this boyfriend who shed been secretly wanting forever. he's disgsting, an asshole, already cheated on her--but that's beside the point.
oneday, she flipped out on her mom for whatever reason...and it's not that the reason wasn't a legit reason...just the outcome was ridiculous.
now she's living at her boyfriend's house.
ok so here it is.
the only time i ever see her anymore is when her boyfriend goes to his friends to play video games. she'd rather not attend so she calls me. or she'll call me up to go for a drive...and that we do...and then she'll drop me off 10 minutes later. she calls me at 630 in the morning leaving me messages saying "adam doesn't get done work until 6pm so i was wondering if i could come over"
it's really fcuking annoying. i can't stand the thought of being someone's babysitter because she doesn't want to be alone. am i justified in ignoring her? that's what i've been doing.

and ps.
she's not as close to me as she was before. so don't tell me to sit down and talk to her

I'd tell her that you don't like where the friendship is going and it was time to move on and make new friends. She doesn't seem all that worth it in my opinion. Good luck.

You should man up and tell her how you feel because unless she's a mind reader she won't know how this is effecting you. She won't want to hear it and things between the two of you will most likely get worse before they get better but it's for the best.

yeah i guess. but sometimes i think i just don't care. she doesn't make any sense half the time. she's never been considerate about anyone's feelings but her own./..so i simply don't care.
as long as i have reason to ignore her then i don't feel so bad.

If you don't value her friendship then what's the problem?

i wasn't asking what i should do
i was asking if i was justified in ignoring her as i was doing. or if i shouldn't be such an arse about it.

If you don't care about her then I guess it doesn't matter if you ignore her.

You don't care, so just ignore her. If she's so inconsiderate, she won't care about your friendship.

move on...

Tell her to take a hike. Seriously. That is not what a friend is at all. That's called an Attention Whore and a Loser. Go out, mingle with new people and make some new friends. She is really not worth the trouble at all. In fact, if I was you, I would have blocked her on my phone already/blacklisted her.

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