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This was completely stupid and over-emotional. Fight in love? Holy fuck.
Basically all you guys are spewing again. I'm going to start a text file just for BS statements.

Anyways, guys, this is the issue. This girl is attracted, but won't wait forever, and it's frustrating her. This is what happens when you fucking pans out with women.

To the OP, 7 guys was way too many and don't try to blame that shit on alcohol and hormones. That was just you being stupid. You just need to set an ultimatum. It's here and now or never at all. Stop fucking around with emotions and shit because that's childish, and neither of you will give in to each other's bitchassness. If he says yes, then good job and be happy. However, if he denies you, move on. It's a rejection, it means no. A relationship just won't work.

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Everything Njord said here is correct but I would like to add one little piece of my own advice to his.

We've posted time and time again on the subject of young love and it's fallacies, but this time I'm not going to beat a dead horse here with the "You're not in love" bit that I usually do in this situation.

The reason for that is because apparently the message isn't sinking in, since we still get a ton of posts like this on a regular basis. Perhaps this is my fault for sticking with a strategy that is obviously not getting through to anyone. So I am going to try something new here. Bear with me.

My advice is for you to do whatever you can on your own to dissuade yourself from your concept of him being "meant for you". By allowing yourself to believe that's true, your ability to act, let go, and move on from the situation is being compromised. You are essentially creating a mental block for yourself that is going to prevent you from being able to cope with the situation in a way that's healthy.

As for how to go about dropping that idea, you are going to have to figure out the best way for you to do that on your own.

I'm not you, I don't know how you think, so I don't entirely know what would work to make you stop thinking that. My one suggestion is to keep telling yourself that there are plenty of other guys out there, and that you are still young, and the likelyhood that anything you would develope with this boy wouldn't be a long term thing anyway. Trust me, if you can shake the idea of this boy being THE boy, handeling this will feel a hell of alot easier.

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Dude, that cat dont love you. He looks at you as a 'backup girl', or his, without him being yours.
Thats conditional love.
Don't waste your time.
Because even if you love him, its never going to be returned.

Ok. Think about this:
You didn't go to that party intending to make out with 7 guys. In fact, I'm guessing you were looking forward to hanging out with this guy .The reason that you did this was because you saw him making out with someone else, and you got jelous. And why do girls get jelous of other girls? In situations like the one you endured, it's because you really care about this guy so much that it hurts to see him with anyone else. Of course, your first reaction, like you said, was revenge. And of course revenge is not always the best option, but you were angry, and therefore probably not thinking straight (not to mention you were at a party). In retro-spect, what you did was wrong, and I'm sure now you even realise this. BUT, just so you know, a lot of people would have done the same thing. He may not see it, but it is some kind of symbolism. It shows you care enough to be hurt.

I want to thank you for that, from the deepest part of my heart. I mean it.

See, in my last post I was deliberately less berating than usual. It was an attempt to see if my points would get across a little better with a little less snark.

Thank you for reaffirming that everybody is retarded and the best way to make you morons learn something is to beat it into your brain with my fist.

Seriously, how many times were you hit in the head as a child? Did daddy favor smacking you upside the skull with a frying pan when you stepped out of line? Because I can’t think of any other explanation for the type of severe brain damage you must have endured to spew such incredible bullshit as:

What a way to put a poetic spin on acting like a total whore. She’s not a slut for making out with seven dudes in one night, she’s just very deep!

You should be a motivational speaker at homes for unwed mothers, I’m sure they’d appreciate hearing that fucking without a condom is some sort of beautiful, emotional, and symbolic act.

The only thing her actions are symbolic for is that she is a stupid teenage girl who is incapable of maturely dealing with her emotions. By no means was that an appropriate response to what happened. She should have been smart enough to realize this was going no where fast, which would have lead to her having a better emotional response to his hooking up, which would have led to her not making out with seven dudes and (I’m sure) starting a reputation for being the village whore.

Hear that noise? It’s the sound of everyone and their grandma disagreeing with you because their neural pathways actually work.

No, almost no one would make out with seven guys in revenge for watching the person they like kiss another girl. Maybe YOU would, and that just raises questions about your mother and fathers competence at a little something I call…*drum roll*…parenting.

What she did was stupid, not normal, and stupid. I was so stupid, I’m listing stupid twice. It was a whoreish action, and her sheer capability of going through with that action is indicative of her becoming a sorority slut when she hits college. Where she’ll go through her “lesbian phase”, take to sleeping with any chump who hands her a drink, and catching multiple STD’s. By telling her what she did was ok, you are promoting an unhealthy and unsafe lifestyle.

Go get stabbed in an alley. I’m done now.

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You seem very smart.

I have a job offer for you...it's in my car...why yes, in the backseat...there's also candy.


I bet you fell for that, didn't you?

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