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Old 07-08-2008, 02:35 AM
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or it was a semi-professional place and being a lawyer, she probably didn't want to put herself out like that. However, who knows, maybe you should talk to her next time you see her. Light convo.
Well, I'm never going to see her again, I served my term and I'm done for 6 years.

It was just weird.

As for intimidating body language, I was eating a hero...the only way that can be construed is just gay.
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Old 07-09-2008, 10:56 AM
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OK! I did the experiment from a females point of view!

I was on the train and there was a guy sitting across from me who was pretty damned attractive so I thought hmmm... Does it work the same way with girls?

So I looked over and met his eye, I held it and he shunted within seconds.

So I smiled and looked around then looked over again and he was looking at me so I met his eye again and after a few seconds he shunted.

The next time I met his eye I smiled and he shunted.

By this time he is smiling to himself but still to afraid to hold my eye. When the other person in the train cabin got off at the next step I met his eye, tilted my head and went "Why are you staring at me?" and laughed.

So he got up and walked over and sat in the seat across from me, introduced himself and I eventually asked why he wouldnt keep my eye and apparently I'm intimidating! Who knew...

So yeah! Those are my results! Analyse as you will.
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Old 07-09-2008, 08:03 PM
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He was/is a pussy.
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Old 07-09-2008, 08:16 PM
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Yeah, you're intimidating because you're a girl who STARES AT PEOPLE. xD

Anyways, Njord tried with a different girl today and wrote up about 5 pages on it, you'll find out why. These are just excerpts.
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9:05AM
Eye contact was made for at least3-5 seconds. It's hard to tell when all that adrenaline is pumping through your body. I wasn't nervous about doing it, but when she finally held my gaze, my chest blew up with a killer rush. It was almost like a high. She kept holding for way longer than I thought she would, and I almost felt uncomfotable doing it. I really had to fight the feeling to look away. She finally threw away her gaze (literally, it seemed har for her) and hid her face with her hair (which she has never done before). I refused to glance-back but I think she caught me still looking when she did, not totally sure. I concentrated on just looking away for 5 minutes, which was hard as fuck. However, I already know she's attracted to me so this will tell me if what I did was detrimental or extremely helpful. I feel like I can run about 5 miles, which I may have to do later.
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By the way guys, drop the eye contact after she drops her gaze, because then it turns into staring, which will creep her out when she does a glance-back and finds you still looking. The point is to give interest, then suddenly drop it. I'm not studying what it does for guys by teh way (status, etc..) but how it makes women feel. Right now, I'm curious to know if she's truly fighting the urge to look at me again, or if she is no longer interested. I may have scared her off, not sure.

10:15AM
Her body language was practically begging me to come sit next to her at lunch, which i refused to do and I have no idea why. However, it's evidence that the eye contaact did work, I just have to solidify it.

11:15AM
Met eyes again, for .5 secs. I haven't felt this anxiety for awhile now and it's almost crippling having it come back this strong. UDnno why my body is reacting this way to this girl when I can look the hottest girl in school right in the face with no fear. Debating talking to her. Reason so is, I have absolutely no idea what to say with all the tension between us. I think I'll just come out with it. Here's what I have so far:
"Hey, come here. Listen, because I'm just going to lay it all out. I'm pretty attracted to you, and don't really know why. I really can't get you off of my mind. So here's the deal:
Either you can talk me out of it and say I'm crazy
or, you could let me get to know you; maybe by telling my your name."
This is not good for my emotions

12:25PM
Interesting note: The hot chick doesn't hold my gaze nearly as long as the first girl, and looks at me more infrequently. However, few of the guys she hangs out with look at me as if I'm an unknown threat, though I sit to myself, far enough away from them so they shouldn't care. Plus, I haven't even spoken to the girl, anad I'm sure they've never seen me looking. This happened yesterday as well with a guy who is either her brother, or b/f (he has a similar skin tone so either she just likes exotic guys or they're related). However, they've never done anything intimate so...
Anyways, I watched as 2/6 guys she usually hangs out with at lunch hit on her, with failing results of course. They don't attempt this when the exotic guy is here, but he was missing today. Alpha Male anyone?
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Honestly, I feel bad because I let myself be held back after a year of being top dog. Njord will make amends tomorrow. Plus, the test really didn't go well since she left immediately after class, so we'll see how it goes.

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Old 07-09-2008, 08:22 PM
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Try again before or after school. Also you may want to try when she is with friends, if she has any. You are doing the right thing, but with these emotions...I could almost swear you have fallen in love.
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Old 07-09-2008, 08:24 PM
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Love is impossible for under 25.

Break is 15 minutes, and starting a riviting conversation is hard with that little amount of time, especially when you have to spend the next 3 hours in class with each other..After school is impossible since her ride is almost always on time...I'll just have to punch it at break. We'll see how goes it.
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Old 07-09-2008, 08:27 PM
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Well good luck with that.
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Old 07-09-2008, 10:22 PM
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Oh by the way guys, I think I've found out the one killer way to really get a girl noticing you.

HOLD EYE CONTACT.

I had serious problems with this, but I've tested it with 5 girls so far, and I've found it's failproof. Unconfident guys have really big problems with holding a beautiful girl's eyes. He'll stare until the girl glances his way, and then he'll suddenly shift his eyes. Big mistake, the girl takes you as another pussy. Example:
While this is true, don't underestimate doing the exact opposite. A short glance before calmly turning away from them can do wonders to. It gives the impression that you're not swooning. I have very good peripherals and have noticed many girls staring at me after I glanced at them (has to be in the eyes) and walked passed them.

People want what they can't have. That is especially evident in girls. If you don't pay a lot of attention to them, but do it confidently, it may intrigue them. Of course, the next time you see them, you might want to stir up a conversation.

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OK, up to the minute update.

I just had a lunch break from Jury Duty and I went to a local deli. I'm sitting at a table, enjoying my ham and cheese hero, minding my own business when all of a sudden this hot blonde lawyer comes into the deli and starts eating what looks like tuna on a roll.

She sits directly across from me and REFUSES TO MAKE EYE CONTACT! She's looking everywhere except straight ahead.

Odin needs to ponder the meaning of all this...
Intimidation. Sometimes, people can be scared to make eye contact with someone. Having not seen it with my own eyes, I can't say for certain, but from the description, it would seem that she probably checked you out from a distance and when she sat down, she didn't want to let off a certain vibe. You should have tried to start a conversation with her.

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or it was a semi-professional place and being a lawyer, she probably didn't want to put herself out like that. However, who knows, maybe you should talk to her next time you see her. Light convo.
Unlikely. But yes, I agree that he should start a conversation.

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"Hey, come here. Listen, because I'm just going to lay it all out. I'm pretty attracted to you, and don't really know why. I really can't get you off of my mind. So here's the deal:
Either you can talk me out of it and say I'm crazy
or, you could let me get to know you; maybe by telling my your name."
This is not good for my emotions
No! Don't you dare say that. Everything about that was wrong, wrong, wrong. Go with something like "I noticed you noticing me. Notice anything notable?"
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Old 07-09-2008, 11:19 PM
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Odin went out with Ollerus the other night and attempted the eye contact test mixed with the Irish Car Bomb trick.

What happened was a case of the poor timings.

I position myself at the bar next to two girls who are sitting alone and have been for about 10 minutes. So Odin decides Gugnir can land in either one of these ladies, so he tells Ollerus it's time to Car Bomb it.

They look at me as I approach the bar, one has her back to me and does a full turn around, looks me up and down, then turns away. So I order the car bombs, loudly count down from 3 and then demolish Ollerus. Usually, the next step of the car bomb trick is to ask the ladies who won, or ask them to keep score prior to chugging them. Well, the one facing me chimes in immediately, "It would take me like 5 minutes to finish that, well done." "So did I win, ladies?" "Yeah." she looks at Ollerus "Sorry, but he beat you." Pretty much just as the conversation is starting, she looks past me, sticks her tongue out at somebody and this douche in a red shirt walks over.

Later on as she's sitting on his lap, she makes eye contact with me and I hold it until she averts her gaze. This happens 3 more times as she's sitting on the guy's lap.

Then do to unforeseen drama, nothing ever came of it, but the fact of the matter is, she was sitting on a dude's lap and still looking at Odin.
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Old 07-09-2008, 11:30 PM
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I was shopping with my sister earlier today up the.. "Mall" which is inhabited with many an attractive fitty I'd love to bone.
So remembering this topic i thought i'd give it a go whilst with my sister.

Suprisingly looking at hot girls for a few seconds then turning away to talk to my sister, or just walking off then turning back around suddenly, I'd notice them looking back.
I'd glance at them and they'd turn away.

My sister was like "why are loads of girls looking at you today?" (as to opposed to 'more then usual' ;] )
I'd better not mention this to my girlfriend haha. Ah well.

Well yeah, it works well on grabbing a girls attention for certain.
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