Does he like me?

xprettyxbabyx · #1 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 07:38 PM

I am sure you have all heard this a million trillion times.

I really really really like this guy who I have met at my new school. At the start of the year he was very friendly with me. Here are some of the things that happened.

-When we were sitting in a group in maths he used all of his effort to sit beside me, he opened my pencil case, tipped all of the contents on the floor, stole my water bottle & was drawing all over my page
-When I am at a computer and there is one beside me he always asks is it working and if anyone isn't sitting there 8/10 he sits there
-He asked to see my phone & fixed it for me
-Played a music game with me and my friend while he sat beside me on the computers
-Always asking if I am okay
-Calls me love
-When I am off sick he asks my friend if I am in school
-When I was off for three days he told me he missed me
-When two girls said to him about fancying me he went totally red and didn't say anything
-Teases me about being short & other little things
-Thought I wasn't talking him, well I was trying to ignore him to see if it would go away I know how wrong was I, he said to me we should catch up over a drink but i really think he was only joking

Since about Febuary/March time, he hasn't so much as spoke to me or looked at me. There is rumours that he likes this gorgeous girl in his art class he has known for five years, I do think that he is besotted with her to be honest. I just don't know what to do. He hasn't spoke to me in ages and now its worse because I am off for summer and will probs not see him until Sept again, it really hurts.

What should I do everyone? Should I say something when I go back to school? Should I just leave it & try and move on?

I don't know how many nights I have cried over this whole thing. Its really killing me. I am afraid to say anything about in case he doesn't like me back.

Please help I would much love your advice and thoughts. Thanks for listening to me ramble on.

Odin · #2 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 07:51 PM

If he didn't make a move, he's not going to.

He was class-act flirting with you but never followed through, love. That's a problem. Sounds like he had talks of hanging out with you but it wasn't serious.

Oh well.

Njord · #3 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 07:56 PM

Cried?? Come on kids, my goodness. I understand attraction is a big deal emotionally for you chicks but there is no way that those qualities/actions listed above constitutes such heavy emotional contribution, especially when he never said he liked you (or you, him). You're being a pathetic drama queen.

Honestly, he gamed you pretty good, but you can't sit around waiting for the Sun to burst in the sky if you like a guy. Fucking tell him. Then you wouldn't be feeling this way, 3-4 months later.

You should leave it, move on, and go out. Let guys hit on you, that always helps. You sound like he's the first guy to do so.

CrippledWing · #4 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 07:58 PM

What Odin said.
He may not even realize he was flirting though. I flirt with girls all the time unintentionally. I didn't notice that I've been flirting with almost every girl i knew since 6th grade until this year.

Odin · #5 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 08:05 PM

I flirt constantly and with everybody (female of course). I know exactly what I'm doing.

You probably do, too.

xprettyxbabyx · #6 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 11:47 PM

He doesn't seem like the kind of person to be a big flirt.

Maybe I am reading too much into it all.

Yea he probably just didn't realise what he was doing.

kungfupandatom · #7 (**permalink**) 07-04-2008, 03:17 AM

he liked u ..but regrets not asking u out ..and now he thinks its too late and is embarrased about the whole situation

tal32123 · #8 (**permalink**) 07-04-2008, 06:52 AM

first of all idk how it works in england (the maths part told me that your from there right away and when he called you love confirmed it) but im pretty sure that either your friends are jealous that he likes you or he seriously likes the other girl also let him go hes totally imature (he drew on your stuff etc. im sure youll find someone else though

Sakora · #9 (**permalink**) 07-04-2008, 09:31 PM

if a guy doesnt make a move he doesn't like you, or is to much of a chicken shit to ask.

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