I Dont Know What To Do!!!!!!

Casanova16 · #1 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 07:39 AM

I'm with this girl rigth now. We both love each other very dearly and would do anything for one another. I asked her to marry me and she said yes, but we have to wait til she turns 18 which is in two years. It may sound that we're to young, but we both have mature minds. She is everything to me and if I lost her I dont know what i would do. I love her, but i dont want to hide it from her parents or mine. Our parents arent the most understanding of people. Someone please help me out and give me some guidance.

Odin · #2 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 07:43 AM

Here's some good guidance:

You're not in love. You think you are, but you're not.

In 2 years, you won't be with your girl, so the issue is moot.

Casanova16 · #3 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 07:50 AM

Who the fuck are u to tell me how I feel do u know me?, I dont think u do. So what the fuck, why is it that u bag on other people? You seriously have a problem!!!!!!!!

Odin · #4 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 07:54 AM

It's OK, son. I understand you're lashing out because deep down you know what I say is true and you don't want to admit it.

The reason why I can say this, so confidently is because you're not the first to be in this situation and you won't be the last. It's a symptom of being young and dumb. You think your problems are unique to you, but they're not. At 17 you can only do so much which means the permutations of your experience can only be so many finite options. There are quite a few, thousands probably, but you're not unique.

You're a dumb 17 year old kid. Buy a hat.

Casanova16 · #5 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 08:00 AM

And ur what 30? If ur 30 thats sad u have no life and u dont kno me, so u cant judge me for the decsions i choose to make. Im not trying to be an ass but i dont like it when people judge other people for their lfestyles. It takes all kinds of people to make this world.

Odin · #6 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 08:04 AM

I'm 20, hot shot, not 30.

So...being a 17 year old male is a lifestyle and I'm judging you on that? Are you retarded (well, you proposed to a 16 year old girl, so I know the answer to that question is yes). I was a fucking 17 year old boy not too long ago, so I'm judging my own lifestyle I guess.

What are you so defensive about? It's not like you're gay or a tranny. What "lifestyle" are you referring too?

Dipshit.

Forseti · #7 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 08:39 AM

How are there two threads in the same day about getting married really young and breaking the news to the folks? Did a highly contagious strand of down syndrome make it's way into the forums without me knowing?

Anyway, cool your jets cupcake, the big man here is just trying to help stop you from making a huge fucking mistake.

You might do well to just sit and think on the idea. Is it really the right choice for everyone involved? Can you seriously predict where you two will be in a few years well enough to say this will work?

Guess what chief? "Yes" is not the answer to either of those questions.

Stop trying to crucify yourself before the masses by saying that Odin is assaulting your lifestyle because he just “doesn’t understand you”.

Quick question, could you sound any more like a thirteen year old girl arguing with her mom over the slutty outfit she’s picked for the school dance? I’m guessing no.

I don’t care who you are, getting engaged this young is bad news. You don’t have to have lived in someone else’s shoes to tell them that showering in gasoline and then lighting themselves on fire is a bad idea. That’s just common sense, and so is this.

It’s really that crystal-fucking-clear. So grow the fuck up, because you’re immature response here is just a glaring indication that you’re not mature enough for marriage.

**Ripplemagne** · #8 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 08:42 AM

Ripplemagne concurs with Odin. I think it's cute that teenagers think they're in love and fight so adamantly to defend that they are. Here is analysis numero uno: If you were in love, you wouldn't have to defend the fact that you are.

Proposing to a 16 year old? Sorry, sweet pea, but your mind is not mature for your age. The longest you could have possibly been with her where it wasn't a baby relationship is 2 years. That is not long enough to fall in love with someone.

And a 16 and 17 year old have not the life experience to understand the true severity of love. You are infatuated, in lust or like each other a lot. When you're fed the garbage you see on the Disney channel about "love at first sight", it's easy to think that the measure of passion you have for each other is love. But it is not. Love, in of itself, is much more powerful than what you are feeling.

And marriage in your teenage years is moronic, anyway. You haven't the proper stagnation to assert such a role. I suggest you rethink your course of action.

Also, find another username. It is a disgrace to the man to whom it is an allusion to.

Also, one month ago:

Quote:

i've known this girl for 3 months now and im like a really good friend of hers so she says, but she pisses me off everytime im around her. i cant explain why because i dont even know. maybe its because i want to be with her so much. she says she doesnt want to be with anyone but when its just me and her she acts differently around me. she wants to make me happy and that means goin out with me but i dont want her to go out with her knowing shes doing it only to make me happy. i love this girl so much. my mind races at like 100 mph but with her it slows do and shes the only preson/thing besides drugs that slow my mind down. i want to be with her so bad. what should i do?

Which means you've been dating her for four months. It also means that you are nowhere close to being in love. And this post, indefinitely, cancels out the statement about you two being mature for your ages.

strangekid07 · #9 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 01:20 PM

LOL Ripplemagne. Good job.

Revellion · #10 (**permalink**) 07-03-2008, 01:22 PM

You can always expect top quality entertainment from that jerk, y'know.

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