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I know I posted a thread before but... anyways.

I have a problem of liking my bestfriend, a lot... He's really funny, and I'm always joking so I'm afraid he won't take me seriously... And then again he's trying to persue a relationship and I figure its like all the rest of them. The girl uses him and then he's heartbroken. I'm afraid to approach him with the fact that I like him, when I first started working he was my first friend, and then I figured out that we went to the same school, so then we became great friends. We've been friend for three years, and I've liked him for most of it. And I want to tell him but i don't know how. I don't want him to stop talking to me if I tell him. But I'm nervous that it'll be a mistake to tell him... What if we go out and during that time i figure out that I don't really have that many feelings for him.

I just want to tell him but i'm not sure how...

Njord advocates going indirect but everyone else says to just go for it, and tell him how you feel. Don't push it if he rejects you and leave it there as well. Also, you're worrying about too much at once, get past you telling him how you feel. Then you can bitch and moan over whether the relationship will work.

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Makes since... But I don't know exactly how to tell him, his kind of with someone...

Tell him anyway, if the girl he's with is "breaking his heart" as you say he might be having second thoughts

But yeah, take Njord's advice, whatever happens, happens. At least you'll feel better that you got that off your chest

True......

How do you figure would be the simplest way to go about it and save myself a bit of humiliation?

Just flow with it. Find a time when you're both alone and just say the words. There's no real way to do it, you just have to say what you feel D:

Which makes me nervous... And what if he gets mad since he's dating someone...?

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Well you gotta either tell him anyway and show him that he has a better option than that girl, or you'll have to wait a lil' till he's freed up. If she's a heart breaker like you said, it shouldn't take long D:

See the problem is... Most girls use him, but he doesn't want to think that they are all like that. He's captain of the football team and most girls use him so they can get the attention of the guy they want and then leave him. And this one's different he's trying to persue an online relationship... And he's never going to meet the girl so he's wasting his time, but he won't listen to me on account of that.

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LOL online?? He needs to come here and get his mind straightened out.

Anyways, stop pestering him about his relationship.
Second, just come out, don't wait for the right time. That will never come.
You two could be doing something completely bullshit, and all you have to say is:
"Listen, I want your dick in my mouth. Right now." I mean, how could he deny that? Work from there.

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