This is going to sound really pathetic, but whatever. Theres is guy and he's ...... like perfect, ok. We were talking and getting kind of close. I really started to care about him and he's said he cared about me too.

Well he's the type of guy that puts up the tough image. He never gets mushy and pussified. Which I thought was sexy ...... at first. Then it was like I was constantly trying to read his fucking mind because he wouldn't let me in. He never showed real emotion at all. Whenever I brought it up he would say,"babygirl you know how I feel.". And that was the end of the conversation.

Finally it became too much. I couldn't stand the way he refused to open up to me. So I told him that it wasn't going anywhere and I wasn't going to play around anymore. He said, "Ok, but I really did care." Yeah .... care .... whatever you didn't even try to make me stay, Jerk.

Guess what? I'm so typical that I want him back. I can't stop thinking about it. I don't even care that he wouldn't talk about mush anymore. I really miss that, I miss being with him and not having that "make him like me by acting cute and girly" obligation.

I've seen him since then and he acts totally normal. So does that mean he doesn't want me anymore and I blew it? Or is he just being stubborn? Do you think he ever cared about me or was I just being a stupid clingy bitch? And if not what should I do now?

He did his job.

He wouldn't let you in and now you can't stop thinking about it.

He's mysterious. You dig it.

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So you think he's just playing around with me?
I don't think so.
I think he's really over all my stupid girly "emotion" shit.
We were like that for a year and then he left for good.

But dude if he's playing me he's fucking good at it.

It isn't that hard to do, Missy. Most guys are just too horny and straightforward to do it.

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Ok. So how do I get him to knock it off? I've been played, what does he want now?

He's keeping you on the line.

The only girls I ever open up to are girls I have no desire (or realistically, no shot) of screwing.

If you're a girl and I start talking to you about my feelings, it means you're out of the running.

If you ask me how I feel and I tell you to mind your fucking business, it means you're in like flynn, baby.

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I just want to add that if he actually said "babygirl" to you and is in fact NOT black, he is a total douche and you should never go back to him.

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Umm lol actually he's Jewish. ..... I kinda liked it when he called me that.

well here is the thing, like odin said, mystery, its what drives women nuts, the more you can't have the more you want. he knows it. and he isn't a emotional little pussy who always wants to talk about everything, also know as a man. (on a side note, i am tired of all these pink wearing manicure getting collar popping "guys". be a man! we are supposed to get dirty and work hard that is why we have showers and axe. its time to sack up and be man). so go tell him you are wrong, and you want to be with him. and if he takes you back problem solved. if not your in high school, you have a whole bunch of time to find another, and try not to screw that one up either.

This action would constitute a flogging as a matter of fact.

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