Ok... theres these 2 guys that i like and they claim to like me. However I've been talking to one for some months now. He is a very sweet person, and we click very well. I have only seen him twice though. And the times i've seen him was at a party. He doesnt have a car but he drives his mom's car everywhere he wants 2 go so I think that he could come see me. He says he will but he NEVER does. He also says that he likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me, but right now he doesn't know exactly what he wants. He told me he loved me but idk if he was being serious. I really like this guy though... but it seems as if i may be wasting my time. He calls me but i usually call him. And it seems like he doesnt make that much of an effort 2 see me besides at parties... Now theres this other dude he is a sweet heart i've known him for a while but we just started talking and i could see myself with him as well... He does everything that the other guy doesn't do. Like he tells me how he feels and he doesnt hold anything back. He even told me he wants 2 spend time with me, and he did just that... He wants to take it slow as well, but he seems to have more potential as far as being with me because he talks about our future and he is very open with me... both of these guys are nice guys but one seems to have more potential but im not sure who to choose because the first guy could be just holding back because he's not quite sure....

so the question is WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE ?


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drag em on till you see which one does more lil cute things that make you smile....you def should see which guy can please you and KEEP ON pleasing you. idk thats my thought..

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Guy 1 is stringing you along, quite successfully. Your relationship would be unemotional and unsatisfying.

Guy 2 seems like a bitch. Your relationship would be dull and unsatisfying.

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i would pick the second one.he is sweet and is open to u and has potential which would b perfect

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i wana guy that loves me 4 me
who says im beautiful instead of hot
a guy that cares about me
one that kisses me like there is no 2mrw

go for the second one, it seems a stuipid question to ask "should i chose the over the phone relationship, where the dude might cheat, and will still never see me, or should i chose the sweet guy, that makes me happy, and is willing to see me, and spend time with me" think about it, the second guy is your best option

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Does everybody understand? Are you all still following me?

i say tak the second 2 he seems ight

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what is life with out no one to love?idk.

lol so true

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This is a classic Catch 22 situation.

You'd better fuck em both or move on completely.

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the 2nd guy sounds the best, but he won me over when you said he was open and talked about his feelings or w/e and I have some guy friends who's parents don't really let them out and maybe that's why he can't come see you. It may be a reason besides he don't want to, since you said he drives his mom's car...but who knows...I still like the 2nd guy...good luck

If you'd leave your decision on who to date up to a bunch of people you don't know, you're a dolt and probably don't deserve either guy.

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