How do you win a guy back over when you've practically lost him for good? I hate the fact that I have and it hurts really bad. I hate that I was wrong in the way I lied to him and now he won't talk to me. We've talked about three times... I've called him twice we talked like two minutes... I just don't want to lose him completely, if I can still at least have him for a friend and nothing more I'll be happy, but I want to have something to do with him. What can I do if apologizing doesn't work? What can I turn to that will work? I know that I'm probably too young to understand/comprehend love or even know how to handle it... But I do believe that I love him, he's the first guy I ever told that. . . And losing him has seemed to really hurt. Everyone tells me I act different, and I guess thats why...

I know I already have that apology thread... but I really do need advice.

You've probably got to get over it. Tough shit, but yeah it happens.

No you won't, you'll see him going out with other girls and your jealousy will destroy you.

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"Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy" - Benjamin Franklin

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How to when a guy over. . .

Buy him a watch

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oops.... I was in a hurry typing. But I'm being serious, I know I've probably lost him relationship wise but... I don't want to lose him completely.

God damn, just get over him

If you spent half the time not moping around wondering what to do about him and writing apologies he'll never read, you'd have another boyfriend already. You aren't meant to be together, it's over like Vanilla Ice's career

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"The world will look up and shout 'Save us!' And I'll whisper, 'No.'" - Rorschach, Watchmen

Fuck him.


The only REAL answer.

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just give it up...

sometimes when you love someone you have to let them go... and if they never come back they were never yours in the first place

ive learned this lesson many times over, and love is tough. relationships suck, and are hard to keep up, if you screw it up, than its done.

breakups are allways hard, but if you dont get over them, your only going to be fucked over again.

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"Every gun that's made, every warship launched, every rocket fired, signifies a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are cold and not clothed. This world in arms...is spending the genius of its scientists, the sweat of its laborers"
-Dwight. D. Eisenhower.

"when the rich wage war its the poor who die"
- linkin park, hands held high

Is it simple enough for you?
Does everybody understand? Are you all still following me?

sort of step away for a while....give him some space, then when he is over it, talk to him some more- things happen- and guys are hurt, they dont want to talk like this, or be seen like tis...it is a sign of weekness- god, i can type like that holy crap! i sound like a scientist lol =)

Face it, you lost him. Whatever you did, you were wrong and you pissed him off. He doesn't want you as part of his life.

It sucks, it hurts, but you know what? You shouldn't have fucked up in the first place. Man up and take your medicine. Grow from this, learn what made you a worthless whore and strive to never do it again.

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