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Old 06-12-2008, 07:49 PM
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I made it sound like a had this amazing life, and I decided I couldn't play that card anymore so I told him the truth, about my mom, about being beat, running away, he told me I should have been honest from the start when things were going so well, but then now I've been dropped Its driving me crazy!
So he broke up with you for not telling him that you were abused and ran away once?
Thats bullshit.
Its none of his buisiness what has happened in your life, and if you chose not to tell anybody thats YOUR choice.
Its a teenage relationship, he shouldnt expect you to go trust him 100% and tell him every aspect of your life.
The fact of the matter is, eventualy you DID come to trust him enough to tell him, and if he cant see that for what it is, then he is a dumb ass.
Just forget him.
Get a new guy, move on.
Your life is really just getting started, and you have a whole lifetime ahead. Guys will come and go, and sure, it'll hurt at the time, but you'll get over it and you will learn from previous failures.
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Old 06-12-2008, 07:52 PM
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I made it sound like a had this amazing life, and I decided I couldn't play that card anymore so I told him the truth, about my mom, about being beat, running away, he told me I should have been honest from the start when things were going so well, but then now I've been dropped Its driving me crazy!
Well, Cinderella did the same shit, and look how she ended up.
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Old 06-13-2008, 12:05 AM
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Looks like he was looking for an excuse to cut and run.
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Old 06-13-2008, 04:29 PM
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Well he was honest with me though, and I wasn't... He told me about how his mom left while she was still married to his dad. And got with another guy, and she's still with him. And whenever he has a money issue he goes to his mom and I'm sure all of you can figure out how she gets him to give her money.
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Old 06-13-2008, 06:06 PM
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okay hey hun, I have an idea. Dont listen to all these people.

I have messed things up with a few of my past gf's, and we managed to patch things up and I am still friends with most of my ex's.

Trust me, dont give up on at least being the dude's friend.
I'm not going to say give him a gift, because well that doesent really help, it'll just seem like a bribe.

Try calling him more, even if talking is only for 2 minutes. And when you feel you two are starting to communicate a little better, ask him if he wants to hang out on a certain day. If he says no, then oh well keep tryin to talk to him; if he says yes, then no problem, just keep hanging out with him from time to time and at the least, you two will be friends.

Thats just my two cents, just telling you what I think would work being a guy myself lol
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Old 06-13-2008, 06:53 PM
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Well he was honest with me though, and I wasn't... He told me about how his mom left while she was still married to his dad. And got with another guy, and she's still with him. And whenever he has a money issue he goes to his mom and I'm sure all of you can figure out how she gets him to give her money.
Just because HE is a trusting person who will go and tell everybody his private life right away, doesnt mean he should expect everybody else to. Its YOUR life. You have the right to keep it to yourself if you choose. If you didnt trust him right away, he should respect that, and respect the fact that eventualy you DID come to trust him even more.

Im sorry to say that Odin just might be right.
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Old 06-13-2008, 07:03 PM
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Im sorry to say that Odin just might be right.
Just embrace it baby. You're life will get better once you do.
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Old 06-13-2008, 10:37 PM
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Odin, you make me laugh
Anyways, I still don't know what to do. IS it bad that I'm so caught up over him and he wants nothing to do with me? He said he had finals coming up and he had to study... That like a week ago though.... I must seem to be a real sucker.
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Old 06-14-2008, 01:49 AM
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Odin, you make me laugh
Anyways, I still don't know what to do. IS it bad that I'm so caught up over him and he wants nothing to do with me? He said he had finals coming up and he had to study... That like a week ago though.... I must seem to be a real sucker.
Face it babe,
HE DOESNT WANT YOU ANYMORE
Hes probably already found another ass to tap.
So quit blubberin and get over it!
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Old 06-14-2008, 02:03 AM
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I don't know you're situation but actions speak louder than words, apologise but also show him that you're sorry.
Just make it clear to him that you still want to be friends and if that doesn't work then just leave him. Try again in a few months he might still be pissed but if he genuinely wants nothing to do with you then let him go.
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