So i went to this party and i just wanted to have some fun.
as usual me and some friends were flirting with everything in trousers, lol.

So im flirting with this guy and he puts his arm around me.
next thing i know we're kissing.

It was totally spur of the moment but he showered me with compliments and at the end of the night i thought we should get to know each other better so we could go out.

I got his msn etc and soon we became quite close, in a time space of about a week. He kept asking me out but i refused because i didn't know him well enough.

One day he asked me out and I said yes because i was convinced i had fallen for him.

A few days later i found his personality a little too clingy and annoying and in the end decided to finish with him.

Now i'm ridiculously guilt ridden and i think he hates me (which he has every right to).

I can't stand the fact that he thinks i was mean and horrible.
And the fact that i keep wondering what if would be like if i hadn't have finished with him.

don t feel guilty if you didnt tell him sooner or later you would have just being lyin to him and dat not good you dumped him now just move on, he'll get over you its not like its the end of the world. so stop feelin bad and get goin with life.
ven

Not your fault you don't like him.
You're both young it's natural just to have fun.

You left it too long to before you went out, if you just had a date earlier on he may have no as been as keep to see you and you wouldn't have had so many expectations of what he was like.

Don't feel guilty about him now though, he's in the past.
Just go have fun with someone else.. and perhaps don't turn it into a relationship.

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So you'd mash faces with him but you wouldn't go out with him because you "didn't know him well enough"? Jesus christ.

It's something every girl has to go through, in order to refine their screening. When a guy showers you with compliments, it's best to kill it right there. He's most definitely inexperienced with relationships and as you said, needy/clingy/desperate.

What a frustrated chump. No one wants to hear your angst here.

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This guy is a frustrated loser who has no idea how women work.

Don't feel bad. The guy was a loser, you dropped him. Let him be mad, hopefully he'll learn he's a waste of sperm and wise up.

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Ehhh! Clingy boys- SUCK DICK.

They are so irritating. I like them laaaaid back.