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95% porn
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2%other
of that 2%, about 1/4 is forums, and about 1/2 of forum members are smartasses, jackasses, or asshats.

You're wrong.

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I am an 18 year old guy from New zealand.
I had a crush on this girl.
She was a big flirt and I later go to the point that she is just a flirt and that she dont really like me.
Ok, this is what happened recently:
She will flirt with me one day, and ignore me the other.
Yesterday she approached me, and said if I want to see magic.
I said yes and she showed me a magic trick.
She then waited on the bench to seek some sympathy.
She never approached me when I was with my friends.
They sit on the same bench as us boys and sit on the other side.
SHe is in my music class and flirts with me sometime, and when I play guitar she come into my room and clap hands playfully and then ignores me the other day.
There is a girl who likes me and she dont see her as a competetor.
It is hard, cause I went out of her English class, and when I went out, she said,"too bad you are out. AT least you are in my Music class."
So, I dont really know.
It is hard to tell.I hear stories that she flirts with other guys as well.So, I am not the only one.
Last time, she sat next to me, and suddenly moved away.
Can somebody tell me what to do?Somebody who is good with the girls?
I dont know anymore.Look, I want to show her i am not in for her games.So tell me what I should do, please

Today I went on a music trip.
She went with my that other girl and said hello and sat behind me in the bus.
Can you see?
Again.
Flirty.

She did not chat to me.

Contradiction.
After the day,
when we went home,

she sat away from me.
This dont make sense.
Whats going on?
What should I do?
I met this new girl who I sat beside and she smile at me everytime she see me.
In the concert i sat beside her.
At least she dont play games and keep it simple.


People say I must move on, I dont think I do have a choice.
But this girl is approaching me and then I feel things for her again.

anyone who would toy with your heart so easily isn't worth the hassle. Either she really likes you and is too nervous to do anything, or she's a cold heartless flirty bitch. But, you must find out. Don't simply "get over it","get through it".
Ask her if she likes you. That should tell you all you need to know. Don't say she's been flirty or leading you on, and don't ask for a date. Ask if she likes you.

I don't see that as flirting. I see it as basic conversation, not even that. When he describes her flirting, it's never:
"She says she likes me, she asks for my number, she touches me (hugs, kisses, pushing, etc..)
I think he's delusional.

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November, I am not against your advice, but believe that actions count more than words.
Thanks for telling me advice.
I wont ask her if she likes me, cause obviously she is gonna say only as a friend.
Her actions told me she dont like me.
Her actions showed me a contradiction.

your still in high school right???? why spend your time trying to figure out what too do when theres so meany other females???

I want to become popular, meet more women.
And get lots of digits.

How should I do it?

And how do you attract women?

Either be a "hot guy"
Be superstar in something(sports, not math)
Or seek out women you like and do something cool for them.
Or join a club after school, one with chicks in it