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Yeah, I'm 18 and in my life I've haf maybe 4 girlfriends, but nothing ever seems to turn out right. I havent had a girlfriends since my freshmen year in high school. I found this one girl who I really liked and we talked and everyone said we had a connection. Well I finally asked her to go do something this Saturday and now shes telling me she need to be back by 6....so she can go hang with another guy, Im almost done, I just feel that their isnt a girl out their right for me. Why can I not find the girl whos right for me...

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If practice makes perfect, but nobody's perfect, why practice?

Just give it a bit more time. I've known guys to fall in and out of love so fast you'd think they'd be knocked with as many times they've fallen. Not saying any names . Anyways life is a game that no one can win. Wait a little while longer and take life how it comes, sooner or later someone that you like and likes you back will soon appear. (not in an illusion sense )

You're full of it. Don't spread lies.

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The odds are against you to find a superb girlfriend when you've had only 4 and little to no experience.

6 o'clock? 6!?! As if that isn't discouraging enough, she's with another guy. As if this wasn't blatantly obvious: She's willing to go out with two guys without telling the other. Yeah, sounds like the ideal girlfriend...

You're being impatient. You're only 18. Don't expect to find the girl who's "right for you" at such an early age. The whole point of the teenage years is to look around and see who you're comfortable with... an immersion into adulthood, if you will. Keep lookin', don't get put down, and don' have your bar set so high (metaphorical bar - the other can stay as high as it wants once you get a girlfriend ).

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Innocent victims for merciless crimes
Fall prey to some madmen's impulsive designs
Step after step
We try controlling our fate
When we finally start living it has become too late

Dream Theater - Octavarium

It is a game, I mean as in a certain sense. One thing you do will make someone mad and bring gratitude from others. Its a no win situation.

Don't be so hasty to get yourself in a relationship. As long as you don't completely shut yourself off from society then there is an extremely good chance that you will find the right person for you. If you a truly feeling lonely then hangs with friends or take up a hobby. Maybe even play an mmo (although those are easy to get addicted to.) But anyway don't worry, you'll find a companion soon.

Man this sounds horribly cheesy....

you want the love of your life to turn up for you when youre 18? lmao


just as theres many people in your position, theres many people that wish they were still single.....enjoy it while you are


in b4 dr phil

I'm not looking for the love of my life. It' just that I see so many of my friends with people that seem to make them feel good...and Im always the odd one out. I really just want a girlfriend again, to hang with and take out, someone I can make feel special and vice-versa.

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If practice makes perfect, but nobody's perfect, why practice?

You look fat. Drop some pounds, then start thinking about a relationship.

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