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Psychological problems tend to get in my way of a successful relationship.
How the hell do I stop that?
My mom claims I need therapy. [Ha-ha.]
My grandmother tells me I should go on a diet or start poppin' the pills.
My aunt..well..my aunt just gets wasted.

ANYWAYS..

It seems one way or another I always manage to go all funky everytime I get into a relationship. First it starts with weird feeling in the pit of my gutts. Then the overwhelming doubt that maybe it's just not worth it. Yet it seems that I feel the need to be in a relationship..Why is that? I mean really? Nothing special about being with the opposite sex up close and personal. It's just a bunch of giggly smoochie infested footsie crap. Feet are gross. [>_>]

What's my dealio?
Seriously?

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im no psychiatrist but...(this is a guess) well how close r u with ur parents, do u like em?

Uhm..
I'm somewhat close to my mother though it reminds me more of a sisterly bond rather than a mother and daughter relationship.(Whatever that is.) I don't know my father though. >_>

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i dont know my dad well at all, hes allways drunk, and ive only seen him sober once or twice in my life

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"Every gun that's made, every warship launched, every rocket fired, signifies a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are cold and not clothed. This world in arms...is spending the genius of its scientists, the sweat of its laborers"
-Dwight. D. Eisenhower.

"when the rich wage war its the poor who die"
- linkin park, hands held high

Is it simple enough for you?
Does everybody understand? Are you all still following me?

o well i was wrong, i was thinkin, no offense to ur mother, that maybe its dat u dont feel kinda umm loved so u need another figure to love you, but now im thinkin sumtin else, how old r u? and y dont u kno ur father? if thats ok for u to answer if not i understand

Have you fought in the yard yet?

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Ahh. I see. I don't think that's it.

I'm 17.

Him and my mom decided they wanted a baby but after being pregnant for 4 months my father decided I wasn't really his and he left her.

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wow dat sux im really sry, well dan i think its this, you need a man in ur life to kinda replace your biological father, my parents divorced when i was 5 and i kinda got a lil sexual and "got together" with a lot of girls cuz i needed a mother figure but they were my age so it was like sexual. i dont kno if this is making ne sense, if it doesnt il try to clear it up more

Makes some sense. I don't think I'd want to get sexual with a man just because I needed a father figure. o_o;;
That seems like incest fantasy creepy.

I have a step-father and he's great though I'm unsure of how to act around him. My whole childhood my mother was screwing every guy she met and dating all the odd abusive ones..So now that I actually have a "father-figure" It's like uhh..Do I have to call you dad?

I'm blabbing again. Sorry.

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haha no its ok talkin makes things better, well i kinda said it weird, but idk