I was with a girl for quite a long time. I really do love her. I was (am) completely obsessed for about 2 years.

About 2 weeks ago she broke up with me. About a week ago she said she wanted to be "friends with benefits"

She wants everything physical, but with the relationship thrown out the window. Almost every guy I know would be ecstatic. She told me she didn't care if I dated or whatever I did with other girls, as long as I kept doing stuff with her.

She isn't slutty, and I'm damn sure she's not with anyone else. I was the first guy to get up her shirt. I'm wondering.. Is she using me? She would brag to her friends about what I'd "do for her" and now it's only what I'll do. I still love her, so if she is using me I would never be able to stop myself..

Advice? Confused as hell..

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What are you talking about??

Mmhh. Most likely, she is using you. If you still have feelings for her, then you probably shouldn't be friends with benefits... Because later you might think she still loves you or something, then confess to her that you still love her, she gets angry, then hates you for some reason. Or just ignore what I said completely. It's your life, I'm just presenting my opinion.

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Unlike most of the people asking here, you have a legitimate question.

So I'll answer without being a bitch.

Drop her ass. She'll get over it, and as much shit as she will end up talking about you to her friends, remember, you're right and you're doing what you must to not be on the shit end of the emotional stick. There really is no other real solution. Move on or give in.

Move on to another girl if you can. That will get your message across: if she doesn't want to give you her all, someone else can have the chance.

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1st thing - I asked for your opinion. Thank you.

I tell her I still love her.. Every time I say goodbye. It seems she doesn't ever do anything physical with anyone else because she doesn't trust them. She trusted me.. Now I am completely confused.. I know I shouldn't submit to what she's doing, but I just love her and I can't stand being away from her.

I'm pretty sure she doesn't love me, I mean she broke up with me because she wanted to be single to look at other guys. (That one really F*cking hurt..)

Thanks.

Not love.

What's the problem?

What is the problem?!?

For a masturbation tool, and you'll be using her as a cum receptacle.
Get in with her friends too. If it's good enough to brag about, might as well share it with the public.
Get a grip puss, no you don't. Once another girl comes along willing to grab your dick, you'll forget all about her.
Why would you want to?

IT'S FREE PUSSY WITH NO CONSEQUENCES. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU??

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If those girls don't like it, tell them to put a better offer than hers on the fucking table.

Right now you still get to have sex with the girl you "love" and get to flirt with other girls too.

You love eating the pie, I know, it was a good pie. Now, you can only have a small slice of the pie. The physical, hot and fun side. You get to leave the emotional baggage side for some poor other fat chick on the line behind you.

Ride the wave, you'll realize you're not in love soon enough but still enjoy banging the shit out of a hot chick.

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This is what I mean Njord. Almost anyone I know would be happy as hell. But I'd really rather have her in an actual relationship. She doesn't want it, it's her choice.

Her friends.. Complicated.. I flirt with almost all of them, and they flirt back. I never really liked any of them though.

I won't jump for the next girl. A girl named Melissa offered me her virginity and I denied. I could have had her right there, I was at her house and it was empty.

I do love her, and I think about her constantly. This is the first time I've asked for advide on something (other than homework) in my whole life. I really want her, and I'm confused as hell.

The last part "IT'S FREE PUSSY WITH NO CONSEQUENCES. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU??" Two things.
1) There's a lot wrong with me.. Ever heard of imaginary elastic? I'm insane.

2) There'd be consequences. One of my best friends (another girl, in fact) would hate me. She doesn't even like the fact that we did that stuff in the first place while we were dating. Most of the closest friends that I have are girls. They'd all think I was a horrible poser if I did this.

Thanks for your opinion though.. I appreciate it..

I don't want other girls.

Nice analogy.. I liked all of that "baggage" because love is emotional.

I love her.. I don't doubt it and never will. Although she is pretty damn hot.

Actually i get why you think you love her, reason is that during sex in males a hormone is created that supposedly binds you to the partner you have sex with. and by "bind" i mean creates emotional attachment aka love. So stop having sex with her, go take her hotter friend out and have sex with her and u will love her friend as well and forget about the other girl lol.

of course this WILL make her jelaous and might make her beg you to return to her. Do not give in.

Good Game.