So my boyfriend and i have been together for a while. It has been amazing. He is everything that i want and more. But I have one little problem...
Last year I dated this guy that treated me really disrespectfuly. Now in my amazing new relationship, things that happened in my past haunt me. They influence everything that i do now. For some reason i just can't let go off all the bad things that happened. They have resulted in trust issues among other things. i dont know what to do. help!

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Just do what every other woman does: Dump your emotional past on your new boyfriend and place all your old problems on him as if he were the perpetrator.

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Screw him like crazy and you'll forget. You'll both be happier, as a matter of fact.

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thanks for the useless input.
odin - what you said is exactly what i try not to do. thank you very much. if i would have done that my boyfriend and i wouldnt still be together
callmaury - i think that its sad that people resort to sex just to cover up their problems. it wont solve anything, all it will do is numb the problem for a short time and once its over you are right back where you started.

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Irony is not one of your strong points, now, is it, darling?

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all i wanted was some honest answers. not all the crap that you guys are posting. thanks for nothing.

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Eeeh yay! You fail.

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"My views on humanity? It is a disease, something that cannot be taught through a gentle push. No... We cannot be saved, our greed, our passion and our lust for knowledge has destroyed that which we have held dear. Humanity is below this world, my friend."

http://www.arg.com/hangout/7810-gene...-not-fail.html
For those who see flaws in our earth, discuss how and what you would change here.
http://www.arg.com/group.php?groupid=70
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlULgi92zK8

Time for the solace only decapitation can bring.

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Odin's Guide to Confidence
Why You Never Buy a Girl a Drink at a Bar
Odin Debunks the Most Annoying Quote Ever
How To Handle A Manipulative Bitch
Odin's Guide to Body Language
Odin's Guide to Why You're NOT in Love
Odin's Guide to Why You Don't Call Guys Drunk

Very nice. But in any case, is 'ello' muted, banned or (hopefully) dead?

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"My views on humanity? It is a disease, something that cannot be taught through a gentle push. No... We cannot be saved, our greed, our passion and our lust for knowledge has destroyed that which we have held dear. Humanity is below this world, my friend."

http://www.arg.com/hangout/7810-gene...-not-fail.html
For those who see flaws in our earth, discuss how and what you would change here.
http://www.arg.com/group.php?groupid=70
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlULgi92zK8