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Old 04-06-2008, 10:19 AM
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I really like this girl but I'm not sure if she likes me. The problem is that I'm really shy and don't want to be rejected face-face with her. What can I do?
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well do you talk to her?
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Old 04-06-2008, 01:47 PM
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The problem is that I'm really shy
Dude..i got same problem..welcome to da club
if i am about to ask a girl out..i'll just terribly freak out, there is a girl in my school i like. i talk to her freely at school but i aint got guts to ask her...
anyone could help me out..what should i do with myself to get over the shyness
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Old 04-06-2008, 01:58 PM
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Go find a guy with bulging muscles and a mean look on his face, ask him the same questions and pretend hes the girl you like. 9 times out've 10 these guys will help you out. Haha
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Go find a guy with bulging muscles and a mean look on his face, ask him the same questions and pretend hes the girl you like. 9 times out've 10 these guys will help you out. Haha
rofl...any other ideas ? really need some Good advice ! :/
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I would try thinking not what she will say, but what YOU will say.
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Old 04-06-2008, 04:05 PM
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Rejection will make you stronger,
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I would try thinking not what she will say, but what YOU will say.
um ya but if i think everything up i'd say and then she'd just say something i haven't expected, it'll mess everything up :/ and i'll be in trouble

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uh i guess but i'd still feel crappy
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Yeah, I know.
You will feel like shit,
for a while.

But you shouldn't let someone else bring you down,
that doesn't do anything for you, and you should be living for yourself.
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well, how else do you think you'll get better at asking people out? Everyone has to get rejected, its part of life. Artist, I really feel you, because getting hurt sucks. I just got through a bad breakup, with someone I was with for 5 months. Thats a long time for anyone in high school. so it sucked 10 times more then a stupid relationship that lasts a week. you just have to realize, that you suck at life. we all suck at life. once we get some of the suck out, by becoming stronger and better people (via regection and learning through that).

I still recomend thinking about what you will say to your girl. If you give a heartfelt little thing, and she responds by laughing in your face, just think to yourself

"this is ONE girl, there are at least 40,000 more avalible in the state alone".

btw, we (I) need some background info in order to help. how old are you, how old is the girl and what is the situation (i.e. are you friends already or do you not know her)
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