i am 16 , she is 16 ,we are classmates since 3rd grade and as i said i talk freely with her when subject aint about going out or something

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Mat & Artist,
Both of u should just try talking with the girl & see how that goes. Just talk casually & watch her reactions, you can tell a lot by that & even get a hint as to whether she's into u or not. But u do have to approach her, b/c if u don't someone else certainly will. & if she says no, at least you'll know not to waste anymore time on her ... Rejection just hurts, sometimes a lot, but it doesn't kill.

The worst that can happen is your heart would break and you would want to die... wait was that not comforting? oops... neither is asking someone out. your like everyone else. most people are nervous when they are asking someone out.

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thanks Missy i'll try and see what happens

and Spencer thanx for your ideas/opinions. i guess i found my answere...Tnx for help everyone

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You're welcome
& Spencer's right. Everyone's nervous when they're asking someone out, but someone has to take the chance. Hope it goes well for you

Just ask her if she'd like to go out with you after school/work whatever.

Then you two can spend time alone down town, or shopping, or something fun (Bowling's good).

At the end of the day you can try and hint you like her or go full for it and ask her if she would like to be more then just friends.


Don't back out if you really like her, I couldn't do this either a few years ago and well it was one of the most painful aftermaths i've ever felt after a sort of tiff and we fell out for a long time.

Talk to her a lot, and try and set hints, and see if she gives you any.
Just go for it in the end, most girls just like to be told if you like them.

I should probably listen to this advice since I am very similar. W/e

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I find signatures useless and stupid. I hope I never make one. O god damnit

I would recomend somthing other then a movie diner date. Bowling is ok, but if you want to impress her, take her somewhere that people don't usualy go to dates on. I take girls to this bridge full of graffiti, and we hang out looking at the 500 some odd feet of fantastic art.

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leave her a note (:

cute style (y).

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Don't post in this thread anymore.

Read this and take it to heart.
Example of a Pussy
Asking Her Out

Short version of it all:
Don't be a puss. Tell her that you like her, and if you're respectable and well-groomed, she'll at least acknowledge you. Girls respect guys who can assert themselves, not being an asshole, but at least stepping up to the plate. Because when it all boils down, a girls wants a man, and you can't be the man if the girl is standing up to pee. So go for it. Then if you do get rejected, it won't be that bad, because she'll respect you. It's a part of life, grow some balls and gtf over it.

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