Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 weeks now and were already having trouble with his ex's her names Courtney they were together for 2 years then she screwed him over then one day she just decides she wants to be friends but before hes telling me she wants him back..
he wants to be friends with her I dont know maybe im just being a bitch when I tell him I dont want him talking to her..
I dont know what to do I dont wanna seem like the controlling girlfriend but im afraid of loosing him..the sad thing is I dont know if I can trust him because he can get out of anything he has a way with words and when he tells me shes just jealous I dont know if hes just throwing shit at me to shut me up.
then today some other chick wants him back and says that he can do better than me... whew im just really irritated and agitated.
anything like this ever happen to you?????

Fuck him in such a way that his ex walks in on you at some point.

Problem solved.

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Lol well I guess I could do that.....

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whoop the ex's ass hell I would

hey be mature about the situation tell ur boyfriend how these girls make you feel, but don't tell him directly that you want him to stop talking to these girls, just show him how much better and happier he would be with you and hopefully he will see that you are better than his ex's, just be aware don't let him walk all over you and let his ex's intimidate you....if you see that he still feels for any of his ex's you know wat to do!!!

thanks all of you...

Rizzle that really helped I try an be the big person about things but this girl man she just doesnt understand it goes in one ear and out the other...

and I did threaten to beat her ass but when I get angry I dont stop and think I just go go go so that really wouldnt help me lol.

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lol well all I gotta say is beat her ass down and tell her stay the f*** away from ur man make her get the point and show ur man that he ain't got no soft girl that he's dealin wit...if dats the only way u can get it in her head then pound away =)

haha ok then I guess if its the only way..

i really wish i didnt have to do it because the last chick really wasnt worth 30 days in Jail.

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Whatever you do, don't tell your man not to talk to her.

Then he'll get defiant and talk to her more because it's dangerous and exciting.

Telling him he absolutely, positively can not talk to her is like throwing meat to lions.

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Don't try to bypass the theme, just say how you feel about him talking to her. If he can't handle it, swear him nicely and leave Honesty is really a salvation. Always.

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