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Oh by the way guys, I think I've found out the one killer way to really get a girl noticing you.
HOLD EYE CONTACT.
I had serious problems with this, but I've tested it with 5 girls so far, and I've found it's failproof. Unconfident guys have really big problems with holding a beautiful girl's eyes. He'll stare until the girl glances his way, and then he'll suddenly shift his eyes. Big mistake, the girl takes you as another pussy. Example:
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While this is true, don't underestimate doing the exact opposite. A short glance before calmly turning away from them can do wonders to. It gives the impression that you're not swooning. I have very good peripherals and have noticed many girls staring at me after I glanced at them (has to be in the eyes) and walked passed them.
People want what they can't have. That is especially evident in girls. If you don't pay a lot of attention to them, but do it confidently, it may intrigue them. Of course, the next time you see them, you might want to stir up a conversation.
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OK, up to the minute update.
I just had a lunch break from Jury Duty and I went to a local deli. I'm sitting at a table, enjoying my ham and cheese hero, minding my own business when all of a sudden this hot blonde lawyer comes into the deli and starts eating what looks like tuna on a roll.
She sits directly across from me and REFUSES TO MAKE EYE CONTACT! She's looking everywhere except straight ahead.
Odin needs to ponder the meaning of all this...
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Intimidation. Sometimes, people can be scared to make eye contact with someone. Having not seen it with my own eyes, I can't say for certain, but from the description, it would seem that she probably checked you out from a distance and when she sat down, she didn't want to let off a certain vibe. You should have tried to start a conversation with her.
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or it was a semi-professional place and being a lawyer, she probably didn't want to put herself out like that. However, who knows, maybe you should talk to her next time you see her. Light convo.
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Unlikely. But yes, I agree that he should start a conversation.
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"Hey, come here. Listen, because I'm just going to lay it all out. I'm pretty attracted to you, and don't really know why. I really can't get you off of my mind. So here's the deal:
Either you can talk me out of it and say I'm crazy
or, you could let me get to know you; maybe by telling my your name."
This is not good for my emotions
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No! Don't you dare say that. Everything about that was wrong, wrong, wrong. Go with something like "I noticed you noticing me. Notice anything notable?"