Continued, Part 4: Clearing doubts.
Apparently some think these are stupid and only work with sluts or high school girls. Ok thats fine. This doesnt work for everyone. But it's not stupid and it will not only work with sluts and high school girls. I got in a huge argument but was able to prove my points.
These hold true. Fine example, my friend's parents said her mom fell in love with her father because he actually made her feel like a woman. Why? She was a director of a nice corporation, i forgot what it was, but she was always making the decisions, always deciding, being the lead. The father on the other hand, maintained a higher social status even though he wasnt as successful as her he maintained it and he made most of the decisions.
Also, many buds have tried it and been successful. Not one was not. Plenty more, but i am not going to waste my breath since i will not force you to try it. I just find it irritating how ignorant some people can be when they can say something about this and not even try it. I also never said i was hot stuff or anything, i simply just began jotting down things i thought were fine, then eventually was told they were great and build up on it.
So tell me it doesn't work on older women that are reasonable and not sluts. But hey, if you guys like older women, go for it! Wrinkles rule! Other things i have just added and did not organize.
-Don't do the pretend not to be picking her up thing, just get rid of that idea. Lose the whole, how can i fly in under radar so she just thinks that im just a nice friendly guy. Get rid of that idea. In fact. Be direct. Go and say, "Are you single?" But the way you say it to look a little suspicious. Don't be all seductive. Just simple say, are you single? Girls never are approached directly, and they will answer honestly.
-Suggest the times you are busy, not the times you are available. It shows that you have a life and things like that.
-Take her to places where theres a lot going on so there'll be plenty to talk about. Dont go to lots of expensive places otherwise it'll show that your trying to impress her with money.
-When your out shopping, don't stand by her everywhere. Say when you get in a store, say you're going to like the jeans compartment. Shows you are independent. She'll eventually come and look for you.
-Predictable is your enemy. Send mixed signal. Say your kissing. And you stop and say, maybe we should just be friends. She'll be like what? Then kiss her. Say she sits on your lap you put your arms around her. Next time she does, push her off.
-Usually you hold hands after you kiss. But you can before you ever have. Hand reading. Basically, tell her, "You know, your hand says a lot about you. Have you ever had your hand read?" She'll say, "No i havent" I say, "Here let me see your hand." Grab her hand and look at her palm. Say hm. Then hand her hand back to her. She'll say, "Well, what did it say." I say, "Let me see again." Grab her hand and tell her something about her. Then say, "Let me see your other hand." Then next thing you know, you'll be walking together holding hands.
Ah great, so you read it all! I'll reward you with a secret i learned. Some ask, "why can i easily talk to girls?" Well i didnt know either. I didnt know it was a natural thing or not, but that couldnt have been it, because i use to be shy. The secret is, i always budget my time so i am always hanging out with women or simply talking to women. "Thats a secret?" Well because, this way i am always refreshing myself with talking with women and it becomes so natural that all these become second hand and there will be no way i will ever forget or lose it.
If you have anymore questions ask me. That's what i formed thus far. I'll probably update it along the way. Before you question them. Have you tried it? Go and try it. Don't do it exactly the same, but use them as a base.
Last edited by Mak; 07-09-2008 at 03:30 AM.
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