Continued, Part 3:

First Impressions and general experience from a friend.
Ok, so a friend, who's 22, told me a lot of things she knows. She also learn a lot about things with relationships. I highly suggest you take these in mind. Well this will be hard to explain since this was all in person. Keep in mind, i covered some of these already above. But im just jotting down everything i remember.
-A handshake. Ok, first off when you meet a girl, you can start with a handshake. Lean forward a little. Keep arms equally bent. And have the "web" part between your thumb and index finger with hers and wrap your hands all the way in. It shows you're not afraid of her and if you give a firm grip with a light pressure, it shows you're not a wussy. If you keep it equally bent that would be best, if it's pulling back, it shows you want her, if you're distant, it shows you are a little afraid of her.
-The #1 quality a woman wants in a man. Self confidence.
-Eye contact. Strong eye contact. But make sure there is indeed some attraction of course.
-50% is just how you look. She wants to see if there's life in your eyes. Some people, theres just no life. They want to feel that energy.
-30% is how you sound. The sound of your voice, woman are much much more sensitive too. Which means, having like no hesitation or reserve in your voice.
-Woman see's sooo many things about men and instantly write them off. There can be one girl and 100 guys around, and you will be lucky if you are one of the 8 she's attracted too. Thats how picky they are. That's why dont feel like it's something you do wrong. It's just how the woman picks men.
-Respect the woman as a person. She'll swing so far with a guy she feels like husband material. Even if she doesnt want to get married, but there is something she feel will she you as husband material.
-There's a very specific moment when you pop, the date question. A woman wants to be appreciated, especially the very attractive ones, because however she considers herself her essence. She maybe spiritual, or comedian that could make anyone laugh, or a lady, or a leader. What you do is wait until she says something pertaining to her personality. When she says somethings really spiritual, you can say like, oh i would really like to talk to you more about that. Boom, now she feels like she's being appreciated. Like she is loved the way she would like to be loved.
-Have a sense of style. Get nice clothes, woman are excellent at seeing nice cloth material.
-Etiquette. Holding arm across street. Knowing how to sip the wine. Now i'd love to explain how, but i really dont know how to add all the sound affects and motions to sipping wine. My bad. But you can keep it in mind. Now im not old enough for drinking but remember this was from my friend.
-Do something that is emotionally stirring for her. She loved the ballet and used that as an example. She transfer all her feelings about the ballet, onto him. It is also better if it's something frightening. Something that puts you in a dominant position.

Internet Dating?
Haha i gave this a shot. Real life dating and internet are two completely different way to tackle. I highly prefer in person but the internet is getting quite vast. Well it's definitely opposite than going to clubs because in a club, the woman has all the power when all the guys hit on her. Now i saw tons of those "dating" sites and basically it shows, hey she wants a guy. You have more power. Unfortunately i mainly used myspace and other sites similar. Since im not really old enough for the other sites. I was able to use a friend's profile for match.com and totally revamp his site and gave it a shot with him.

Think that there will be no such thing as failure and instead just learning experiences. Many guys are just technique oriented and outcome oriented. That'll bring you down.

Treat her like a person, not like a hot piece of ass. That mindset is powerful You'll definitely get results.

Woman look for meaning. And a lot of time the women say she feels the guy does not act confident or seem confident. This applies in every situation with woman. That is why i highly suggest reading the article i placed and the things i suggested. Then she's going to think, since he's not confident, he's usually not successful with woman. Then she's thinking, if he's being rejected and no one wants him... then i dont want him. This is all from confidence, now we dont think like that but that's what happens.

But here ya go. Techniques.
Start with an opening of course. Say something like, "Hey, your profile caught my attention."
Second, tease her, bust on her. Tease them about being a man, they'll always try and prove themselves they arent like, "Listen i hope you're a girl and not some 60 year old pervert.(Be creative with things like that. Add more to it, like absurd things. They love it)" Even if they arent interested, they'll still try and prove themselves. If they misspelled a word, take the definition of the word and just give em it. It's a lot of fun, have fun with it, dont take things too seriously. You know, it's not a job, just spend like an hour a day doing this stuff haha.
Thirdly, mention something about yourself. You got my concepts down, use them.
Nextttt, you want to qualify her. You know, you have that criteria you want a woman to meet. Ask her questions. Simple things, like, "What are you listening to right now? Whats your deal breaker with a guy, first things you notice when you meet a guy." Things suited to you.
Last but not least. Don't leave the thing open ended and the girl just doesnt know what to do. Just tell her what you want to do as a result. "Thanks for reading the message/email. Get back to me later, i have more questions i want to ask you." Leave a little hook at the end. Assume she will. Dont make it seem like you're begging her. Just assume she will.

Again, give mixed signals. She'll never know what to do, find you interesting and mysterious, and become intrigued. She'll be coming to you.

Create jealousy. "Sorry it took me so long to reply, im just getting way too many messages/emails from the site."

Hahahaha wanna be really fun? They'll love it. Make a point system :] You know, if she said something nice/cool, say like, you get 10 points for that. Get a 100, you get a date, 200 you get to kiss me once :]

Say things like, "you know, i'm not too sure about you." They'll keep asking what arent you sure about etc.

When you get her #, call her asap. They just get sooo many messages it's scary. So you have to qualify her quickly. Just call her and say like, "hey hope you're not as scary as the last girl i met." Qualify her.

Random things. Say, "Well, good luck with your search." She'll be thinking, oh, is this not going to work, and she'll try to get with you.
Funny things, "You know, i'm reading the book you mention on your profile, but you probably stole it off mine to score some points with me." "Nice hair, did you get drunk one night and stick your head in the food processor? (Hey if she doesnt laugh at that, then i dont want her. You may get hate mail, but just say, yeah well, good luck with your search.)" Sometimes, they'll think oh no he's getting rid of me. The ones that do laugh, and you end up getting with them, they are tons of fun. Again, qualify them. Don't waste 30 minutes talking and wasting your time. Just get rid of the ones that arent of your interest. Don't be afraid of upsetting a woman. Enjoy it, don't always look at the result. The end result will come eventually.

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