Continued, Part 2.

Flaking and turning the tides
Here's an issue i always had trouble understanding. It is something like "flaking" best way for me to put it. Say, we make plans and she doesn't show up because "something" came up. Why?! Then something clicked. Remember when i say logic so far never follows. So I thought, how about a turn about? For example, When i talk to a girl and say, "Hey, why don't we hang out on Friday?" She'll say, "ok cool." I respond, "Alright, why don't we get together at 7?" Then she says, " alright... "Call me"." BAM then i lose it and think what? didnt i just say hang out at 7? I'll say, "ok.. uh alright.. bye." I know it's not going to work.
-How about... I flip the tables around. I tested it and heres the result. I say (hope you realized this is on the phone so far), "Why don't we do something this weekend?" She says, "Yea that sounds great." I respond, "Alright cool. You know, maybe Friday or something. (Then guess what I say!) ... "Call me" Friday night and maybe we'll hang out." (This time i flipped the dynamics around.) Then I continue saying, "Alright, I'll see you later, bye!" Hang up. NOW, she's getting that same feeling that you use to get. Now she'll be thinking about "you."
-Something ironic I tried after that is not going. She'll be like, "I. I tried to call you Friday, where were you?" I said, "Psh iono i went out and did something." She sid, "Well i thought we were going to do something." I reply, "We didn't have definite plans. We said we were going to "talk" Friday night." Now i notice, shes trying to push back and get together with me.

Conversations
-Another tip with phone conversations. Always keep it short, and end it where it starts to get very interesting. Don't let the conversation drag and gets boring and then she'll leave with the impression of you being boring.
-Complain about something in a serious tone, then give a sly smile. There is always something she will do and mess up. Complain about it in a serious way. Like too serious.
-Now this one takes experience. Interpret everything she says as her wanting and needing for your approval and attention. This will put her on the defensive and she doesn't have any material. It's awesome. Here's an example. Say were hanging out and she goes and say shes going to go and get a drink. Now in your mind, misinterpret that as if she is asking you if you want a drink. I'll say, "Woah woah, now thats not going to work. Just because your going to buy me a drink doesnt mean I will go back home with you tonight."
Comment on little things, like she raises one eyebrow. Then say, "Ah, looks like i got one eyebrow."
-Voice, tone, and body language appears to cause way more attraction than words (for all you who just want pick up lines).
-Give them cute nicknames very early on. They love disney princesses so give them one that they remind you the most of. Ooo, especially when they get mad, I say, "Alright, Sparky, calm down." Why give nicknames? I think it shows that you are already comfortable with her and we all know we give nicknames to those we know for a while.
-Always end interactions
-Take control of situations
-Maintain strong eye contact with the girl especially if it's your first approach.
-When you tease, it shows you aren't intimidated and your funny.
-Let things distract you once in a while, if your having a conversation turn away once in a while and let something that catch your attention. If you pay too much attention on her every move it'll show that your too involved in her.
-Remember just misinterpret everything shes doing is a way to pick you up. And turn things around when she tries to take control of the conversation to remind her that she just screwed up her chances with you.
-Suspense is also great in initial conversations. Walk up to a girl and say, "Hi, you are realllyy....... beautiful." Suspense. The pause. Pause a lot when you are in an interaction.
-Again be funny! You know your standing next to a tall girl and she has high heels. You can say, "What are those like 7 inch heels? I bet your like 4'11" without those things on."

Have integrity as well as a little bit of fun. Now i'm not saying being totally honest, just have a little fun. Tease her.

Don't answer questions directly!! It's boring. Say she asks what do i do. As you know i like to make movies. I say, "Oh i get people and tell them to stand infront of this camera, and i hand them a paper and tell them to do whatever it says. I take whatever i recorded and go home and edit it and make them act really dumb." Never answer their questions directly.
Heres a good one that'll always make things fun. When she asks what do you do. Be like, "Uhhh uh yeah.. i probably shouldn't tell you." She'll be like what what. Then say, "Umm.. I'm an ass model." Just by looking at you, it couldn't be true. Then go, "Wanna touch it? (while turning your ass to her." Then go, "Nah you know what, i got an early call time tomorrow, don't want to have it bruised." She'll definately go and just grab it, and just be like hold her off and yeah haha.

Girls will always be testing you whether they realize it or not. Always try to keep a higher social status then her.

How do i get her phone number in minutes?! Heres some ways:
-Start a conversation. Say hey whats going on. Make interesting comments on whats happening. Say something funny. Ask a couple of normal questions "What you do around here" "You live around here" Make a couple of jokes be cocky and funny. Then when it time to go separate directions, you want to be the one to end the interaction, dont let it fizzle out. End it on a high note. Say like, "Alright im gonna get back to my friends. It's good talking to ya." Turn away. Then say, "Hey. Do you have email?" She'll most likely say yes. Then get piece of paper and pen/pencil and say, "Here, write it down." As shes writing, when she reaches the @ symbol. Say, "Oh, make sure and write your number there too and your name. Shes already writing the email in the middle of it. She'll definately say like oh of course and she'll give you her #. Now if you really want to have some fun. Say and point to it, "Is this real?" "Is this a number you actually answer?" Sometimes they'll say, "oh thats my page #" Or whatever. Then say, "What are you doing, put your number down." It's good. Then say, "alright, take it easy." And leave. All that shows no intention that you want to go on a date, that your going to call her, not communicating that your in love with her. It leaves some mystery involved. She'll be thinking, is he going to call me? Whats going on here? Really simple, just like 3-5 minutes.
-Usually theres not a lot of time talking to a girl. Say you saw a girl working. Go and talk to her. Say, "Ah you know what, you ever have anyone analyze your handwriting?" She'll be like, "uhh no not really" Then say, "Here write down your name real quick." Look at it and go, "hm. very interesting. Then say, ok, write down your phone number." She'll go, "what?" Say, "Write down your number" She does, then say, "You know i just dont have time, later." Then leave. haha it's really funny and she'll find it funny too. Builds anticipation, she'll remember who you are then call her etc.

How long should i wait until i call her after getting her number?
If you wait like week or two or three, then you better be real smooth and charming and know how to build all that back up.
If you call her an hour later, you might give off the impression that your a little bit needy.
I think the 1 to 2 day range is the best time to hold off until you call.

Things not to say to a woman.
Ok so, dont say these things. Like i said, i tried everything to get all the results and be sure whats good and whats not good.
-Don't say to a girl:
You're sexy/hot/bangin/a babe or anything related to sexual things. Especially those lame pick up lines like oooh your legs are so blah blah blah. Why? Because it is said to them all the time by other lame guys and they interpret you as some guy who's just looking for sex.
-Instead you should say that she's beautiful/pretty/gorgeous/stunning/and other things. But at times i think it's better to spot something wrong with them and tease em about it.

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