Ok. Here are all my tips and experience i have learned. I have been slapped and kicked in the groin to get these.
Believe me, these aren't only for one night stand things. They're also not just technique base. Read it all. They'll benefit you as a whole.
Many times i've been pestered by those who have yet to try any of these. Try them before judging them with full force. Those who tried i have yet to get negative feedback.
Also many women read my things and a good half did not like it. I understand, but until they've been through what i have listed, they agreed. Also at times, they may seem to show little respect to the woman, but trust me, i am one who would not disrespect any woman.
I am also not forcing you to do any of this. If you do not like it and like your own way, that is completely fine with me.
I'd love feedback and success stories so if you don't mind.

Then i shall begin.

General things
First and foremost, when trying to attract a woman, logic doesn't usually follow so dont rely on logic! Let me give you a list of things that does not logically follow. Took a lot of editing but this is it.

These work completely with attractive woman. Why? Because they are constantly approached and they have to quickly blow off men they dont see capable. But these still hold true on all woman, just to certain extent on their personality. But also again, theres the exceptions, dont take these to the extreme as if it is the primary base of every understanding. These are just "General" things.

You: She:

Give Compliments ---> Is repelled
Notice flaws ---> Feels affection

Act humble ---> Feels repelled by you
Act arrogant ---> Feels attracted to you

Call often ---> Doesn't call you often
Don't call often ---> Call you often

Ask her to decide ---> Thinks of you as insecure
Always decide ---> Appreciates it

Act unselfishly ---> Doesn't like being around you
Act selfishly ---> Likes being around you

Accept her drama ---> Doesn't respect you
Never tolerate drama --> Respects you

Express feelings ---> Needs space
Show no emotion ---> Expresses feelings.

What? I'm also sure that theres plenty more things i didnt cover that logically follows yet. Haha if your a science major, it may be difficult to let go of logic. You can still be highly ethical and highly successful with woman.

I don't care if you think you don't look hot. You can get a very attractive woman based on your personality. You can be an average 5, and from there on, your personality and the way you act with her will bring you up to a 10.
LET GO of the fear that if I lose this one girl, i'll never get another again. It will only drive them away, they can feel it.

Before you do any of this. You need to be certain about yourself. I just read an article on Self-belief. I will sum it up here. I don't take credit for this. But i will present you it.
The Pyramid of Self-Belief:
You'll see it when you believe it.

The ceiling on your future potential will substantially be defined by your own belief of what is possible. One of the most important things we can all do is to make sure that we're not cheating ourselves by laboring under a cloud of self-limiting beliefs.

Self-belief is developed at four levels. Imagine a 4- step pyramid, with self-concept at the foundation and self-confidence at the top. Each element rests upon those below, and the whole process is iterative:

Level One, Self-Confidence: An underlying awareness, either implicit or explicit, of your role as a human being in this universe. What do you see when you look around you: a world of scarcity and risk, or a world of abundance and oppotunity? Evidence for both views abounds, though we tend to see what we look for.

Questions like these cannot be answered in an absolute sense, but rather depend largely on what you choose to see as you look around you and within you. Your self-concept will have a profound influence on your personality, though, and upon the results you get in life.

Level Two, Self-Image: What do you see when you look in the mirror? A winner? A victim? You will never exceed your self-image. If your self-image is that of being a victim, no matter what happens, you will always be a victim.

One of the main reasons a majority of people who "win" big in the lottery end up bankrupt in less than two years is that they still see a victim when they look in the mirror, and end up blowing all their money to establish consistency between that inner self-image and the outer reality. On the other hand, the self-perceived winner who loses everything will eventually find a way to get it all back.

Level Three, Self-Esteem: Do you like what you see when you look in the mirror? Do you believe that you are capable of achieving your dreams and goals, and that you deserve to enjoy the fruits of your success? Do you believe that you are worthy of the affection and respect of other people? People with high self-esteem get a lot done and make substantial contributions; people with low self-esteem tend not to. Low self-esteem is often an insidious excuse for cowardice (fear of rejection) and laziness (fear of failure). The four essential elements of self esteem are:

- Accept yourself as you are, warts and all, and don't beat yourself up for those things that you cannot change.
-Identify those warts which are not acceptable and begin consciously working to eliminate them.
-Avoid negative influences and actively seek out positive ones (people, places, media).
-Accept complete and total responsibility for your circumstances and outcomes, and refrain from blaming other people for your problems.

Level Four, Self-Confidence: This simply means that you feel like you have what it takes in terms of skills and resources to meet the challenges of your life and to effectively pursue your dreams and goals, or you are reasonably certain that you can obtain whatever you need but are now lacking. Genuine self-confidence is usually quiet, as opposed to the loud boastfulness of cockiness.

Important caution: Enhancing self-belief raises the ceiling, but you've still got to climb the ladder. You have to believe that you are capable of achieving your most authentic goals and that you deserve to enjoy that success, but you've still got to do some work.

Something to think about: "It's better to make a mistake with the full force of your being than to carefully avoid mistakes with a trembling spirit. Responsibility means recognizing both pleasure and price, making a choice on that recognition, and then living with that choice without concern."
-Dan Millman: Way of the Peaceful Warrior

Somethings to practice and thing about that i've come up with: Every morning and/or night, look infront of the mirror and look right at yourself in the eye. And say, I am good, or something positive about yourself. At first i tried but i had trouble to say it confidently. Say it when your dad, mom, someone close, or friends by your side. If you can look yourself and not be embarrassed while saying it. You're making progress.

Heres a diagram that well sums up everything that was not in the article.
At the start you have Idealistic. Which basically means you're totally impracticable, it's how you want everything to see. But as you realize none of this will happen, You go down and reach the second level(noticed i said go down). Frustrated. As we are frustrated we will then continue moving down and hit, Defiant. Where you are resistant. You continue and hit the bottom of everything and this is called, Resigned (Either surrender or act passive-aggressive). This is the critical point, the point where everything changes. These are necessary and everyone goes through it. Now you begin to move up and hit, Awareness. This is where you see a whole new range of things, opportunities, and just become excited. You pick something and this is where you become, Decisive. This is what you want to do, and finally you'll reach the peak and become, Committed. But notice, because you are so commited or rather the most commited. What were you also when you were the most commited? You were the most idealistic. So think of the diagram as a U or a spiral. Because this is starts itself again, and this is the evolving and learning process of life.

I try to stick between awareness and decisiveness. Stay aware of possibilities, deciding on them, trying them out and moving forward with them. And then maintaining my awareness. Not getting too stuck on an idea.

Practice and think about these. They will help you in life not just women.

Now before we get any deeper, keep in mind, all these you will have to do with experience. You can never be perfect the first time.

Here are some ideals that we all thought about but they just don't work.
-"I try being myself in the way she'll like me for who i am." But of course attractive woman are often approached so they blow off men fast. So intstead, I thought of some techniques to get past the persona. Like original things. When i first meet, I said, "Sup fool!" Normally they get compliments, saying just that makes her interested and it's also quite funny. Try it!
-I saw lots of guys in relationships and basically they literally, "I want to tell her that she's special and that I have feelings for her." Haha, no. I realized they will instantly read you as wussies early on. Then what should i do? Just hold off, lay back, and show her your different.

This is continued in my second post because i exceeded the limit.

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