go for the second one, it seems a stuipid question to ask "should i chose the over the phone relationship, where the dude might cheat, and will still never see me, or should i chose the sweet guy, that makes me happy, and is willing to see me, and spend time with me" think about it, the second guy is your best option

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"Every gun that's made, every warship launched, every rocket fired, signifies a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are cold and not clothed. This world in arms...is spending the genius of its scientists, the sweat of its laborers"
-Dwight. D. Eisenhower.

"when the rich wage war its the poor who die"
- linkin park, hands held high

Is it simple enough for you?
Does everybody understand? Are you all still following me?