Good luck with that. You can't change him, so you either deal with it, or leave without it. Sure you could TRY to get him to do something outgoing. You could TRY to break his shell. But you can't make him do anything he don't wanna do. My sister had a boyfriend who was so shy, he didn't even want to go to PROM with her. Of course, my sister, being the bossy one, made him go. He stepped on the dancefloor not ONCE.

However, since you guys haven't even been on a date yet, don't go creating up problems when nothing has happened yet. If you really like him, get to know him better, and see if you guys can work out the differences.