I've been talking a lot with my friends about this but I figured it would help to get the opinion of people who don't know either of us and haven't been listening to me complain about him the last few weeks. I've known this guy since 5th grade I think and I've always considered him a friend up until this year. We had a thing in November 07 but didn't start going out until December, we went out until March, broke up, went out for another month, then broke up just recently. Now I'm going out with this other guy but I still have very strong feelings for this guy and he still does for me. We both sort of agreed that it wouldn't work out so we decided to be friends but I CAN'T take this because I have all of these feelings for him. Then there are these other girls falling all over him. Should I break up with the guy I'm seeing now because of these feelings? Or should I just give up on this boy who I've liked for about half a year and stay friends? ...Or is it just that being friends with this guy is just too difficult? I spend every night crying and I feel pathetic, I need to straighten this out soon. Your help would be appreciated, really.