I have little to add unfortunatly.

I am currently in that situation (minus the weed)
but the apathy applies to nearly everything on top of other such things so I cant say i know alot of what to do.

But i would have to agree with the others on simply to start the weed MUST stop.

and seta goal or two, nothing huge just enough so when you reach it, you will feel good that you did and get a boost to reach your next goal.

like my current goals which are outrageous because I have to do them not because I choose to, I have smaller ones, like clean my room.

and to show you what happens if youd otn reach your goal;...
you end up with your room more messy and harder to live in a week and a half after you had hoped to have it clean =/

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