Ok, lets see now. You both agree it would be special to lose your innocence at the same time. However HE isn't really losing anything at all, YOU are. If you know for a fact he cheated on you then why are you even still with him? You want my honest opinion? Don't give him the satisfaction! Your only pure once, and after that you can't get it back. There is only one Marissa Matersall on this planet. And obviously Chad doesn't think highly of you. Don't be stupid. Of course, this is all your decision. Thats the beauty of life. I hope you choose wisely!